ok here's the deal. I met this guy and we've both been goin to dinner with other people, but i like him a lot and he has said the same to me, almost every day. I know if it werent for the distance, we'd be together. He says i make him happy, and he feels better when he's tlaking to me, and im the same way with him. I cant quit thinking about him, no matter what im doing, and he has said he cant quit thinking about me. Lately i've had a feeling about him, and i think i love him. But im afraid if i tell him things will get awkward, if he doesnt feel the same way. We talk for hours every day, and i dont want that to end.
Should i tell him, or not, or wait a while to see what the feeling is?
2006-07-06 06:23:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta tell him darlin. Get it out there, cause if it gets awkward then he's been lying to you when he tells you he can't stop thinking about you. If that's true then you would have been lying to yourself to keep talking to him. Why not go ahead and get started on a new relationship? You're only losing time if you put it off. GO FOR IT!!!
Good luck
2006-07-06 06:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre in a tricky situation. You dont want to lose this person as a friend yet you would like to see what the next level is like. I would ask in a roundabout way ...such as "I love you...Im so glad were friends." If he says it back then say..."To be honest with you, Its a little more than that but I want you to feel the same way, if not, thats cool, I love being your friend."
2006-07-06 13:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by sooner_buckeye79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so quick to tell him how u feel..wait a little more or until he says it first. I think you guys should be an official couple first before you tell him.You dont want to tell him and scare him off. There is a possibilty he feels the same but just incase dont scare him off
2006-07-06 13:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he already knows that you like him, benellibaby. So, yes, you should tell him that you are falling in love with him. Chances are good that he will like the deal and return the sentiment.
2006-07-06 13:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're both in love with each other
normally a guy wouldn't say he likes being around a girl unless he's got the hots for her
go for it!
2006-07-06 13:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell him you love him, but stick it out and see how he feels... I hope it has a sweet ending!
2006-07-06 13:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by forsyth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As cliched as it is....life is short, hurry up and figure out if can work so if not you can move on to the next one....
2006-07-06 13:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Eagen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Nothing ventured, nothing gained, if not for experience.
2006-07-06 13:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will you ever know if you don't ask. aren't you killing yourself wondering, just let him know and go from there.
2006-07-06 13:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋