i am not planning on having sex anytime soon (marriage 1st) but i just want to know if it hurts the 1st time having sex
2006-07-06 06:04:00 · 10 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how prepared you are, I suggest foreplay before you have to be relaxed and ready. Lube, natural lube I am sure you will have plenty of that, lol. Plus if he is packing it will be uncomfortable at first, you will be okay. It did not hurt my first time he slide right in, I was surprised and so was he, but I was so ready and I was very gushy. You needed some paper towels to clean up the mess, hehehe. He later told his friend, who told my friend that I was not a virgin because of that. My feelings was hurt but I moved passed it. That is why I preach to people If you are going to lose your virginity before marriage make sure that the person is worth it. He was not, I wished at some time that I would have been better off if I gave it to my first boyfriend high school that I really liked. Ooooh he was so fine, but things happen for a purpose. Plus me and the Loser guy hung around for years off and on, and by doing that I was able to hurt his feelings in return. To this day that f#*k still asks about me. It has been over 15 years, Ha! what a Loser. Good luck.
2006-07-06 06:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the guy does it right and gets your very wet down there. Then the pain is not as bad but he just goes in without getting you turned on really good...then it will HURT!!!! But I would recommend you to wait until marriage or if not, then find the right guy who loves you. Once you give up your virginity, you can never give it back. A real man will take it slow and be intimate with you emotionally, without sex being such a big deal. Hold on to your innocence for as long as you can.
2006-07-06 13:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by SweetCoco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, A littel bit. But it is like "the little peace before the storm" Storm of enjoyment and fun, never ending excitement
2006-07-06 13:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it hurts at 1st but after a while it feel great. if its wit da 1 u luv it would feel incredible
2006-07-06 13:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by The Original Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you 17?
2006-07-06 13:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy but i do know that the first time is painful, especailly if you have never done anything like masturbate or use a dildo, just make sure you have some KY on hand for your first few times to help.
2006-07-06 13:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine and every girl I've talked to about it says it hurts. I cried afterwards, but I'm a whimp too.
2006-07-06 13:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does hurt a little bit, but it gets better. Trust me!
2006-07-06 13:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Laurissa DLP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hurts upon entrance, but after a couple of minutes and guessing that he knows what he's doing it's ok. but if he doesn't know what he's doing it feels awakward.
2006-07-06 13:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Corona S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes it does,,, dont let anyone else tell you different
2006-07-06 13:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋