there is this really really cute guy, i mean like really handsome where i work and for a while he keeps smiling at me and when we are on a break he looks across the room at me like all the time he bassically stares at me. so the thing is that i'm cute, but nothing special and as i already said he is so hot so he could have the cutest girl anywhere. and where i work there're better looking girls than me but he doesn't seem to care. he is really nice to me and many times i find myself watched by him but not like stalked or anything. he is very shy and he never said anything about it. i have a boyfriend but for some reason i think i like him, i don't know, i like how he's staring at me makes me blush. so could he be interested in me or it's just bs?
2006-07-06 06:01:40 · 13 answers · asked by ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One relationship at a time, honey ... one at a time!
It's fine to notice other guys, but don't start running away with yourself. You're in a relationship already, don't complicate your life ... deal with one thing at a time.
Is your current relationship working? If it is ... quit with the wandering eye. If it's not a good relationship ... get out of it.
Always think of and deal with one relationship at a time ... or you'll ruin whatever relationship you're in and just start bouncing from one to another until you run out of candidates!
Either make this relationship work and quit looking ... or get out of it and find another one. Don't try to do both at the same time.
2006-07-06 06:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you like him because you think that he likes you. You are flattered that of all the women at your job that he could have been interested in he chose you. You do not know anything about him to feel anything other than lust and infatuation. He probably is interested in you. I know that us women rag on men all the time about being dogs but there are some men (very few) out there that are not looking for a trophy. He may be more interested in the way that you carry yourself than he is in the way that you look in comparison to the other women in your office. My take on it leave well enough alone and know that you are desired.
2006-07-06 06:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going that much out of his way to look at you I would say that he "likes" you.
You liking HIM is the problem...you are commited to someone else. If you boyfriend has done nothing wrong you are jepordizing what you have for physical attraction and you need to stop it. Accept this co-workers attention for what it is...flattering and drop it. You know nothing of importance about this co-worker..he may be handsome but that is hardly something to base a relationship on.
2006-07-06 06:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit Ritto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he could be interested it seems. but it's also very flattering when anyone I mean anyone looks at you. it could be some dork staring at you and you will still be very flattered even if you don't like him. and sometimes you try to talk yourself into likeing a guy just for that reason.
2006-07-06 06:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for sharing this question with us.
You sure have a point there!..
I'd suggest you to look at it from a different angle:
Would you REALLY like to have it otherwise?
Oh by the way, please take a good care of yourself.
Have a nice day!
2006-07-06 06:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BS or not,,you have a bf,,And i think you know it will never work out,,But if you are really sure he likes you,,Then go for it!
2006-07-06 06:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by Kath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, he's interested in you. maybe, he don't know how to tell you. Never leave the one you love for the one you like.
2006-07-06 06:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is intrested in you but there nothing much to be done if he isnt making a move
2006-07-06 06:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will go and talk to him the next time he looks at you. start with small talk that is very innocent. determine from there.
2006-07-06 06:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by kisha l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes u
2006-07-06 06:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋