Me and my partner has had sex at least 5 times a week for about 2 years and suddenly he doesn't want any now. We have not had sex for about 2 months now and I don't want to cheat, but I get the feeling he is. I don't have any proof, but shouldn't that be proof enough? Is it possible to jump from nimpho to nun?
2006-07-06 05:51:40 · 15 answers · asked by dameka1977 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may be cheating or he simply may be burned out on sex. But if you two have been a steady "item" for 2 years it would be weird for someone to just stop if they're cheating. Usually (and this isn't experience talking here) I've understood that when a guy cheats (and doesn't want to get caught) he really begins to pay attention to his partner (if you know what I mean). So for him to stop cold is quite strange... try talking to him.
2006-07-06 05:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not proof enough. Maybe it's getting a little boring. You two may want to look up in the spice cabinet and see just what else is up there for you two to try out.
Switch the tempo, new positions, try being more domineering (a lot of females are too passive and don't ask for what they want), then there's either break up, counseling, or porn.
2006-07-06 05:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by The R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt mean he or she is cheating Im dealing with the same thing from my man we went from 2-3 times aday to maybe 2 times a week. The honeymoon period is over but there are things you can do to spark it up... Also from my experience we are tired alot we both work we both raise kids and I just started back in school so diffrent factors can slow the sex down... doesnt mean your being cheated on
2006-07-06 05:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prior to jumping to the cheating conclusion, I would ask myself if something has come up in the same time period that has placed him under an unusual amount of stress. Stress is a huge sex dive killer.
2006-07-06 05:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by cb.howell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is communication. Yeah it's a good chance he might have found someone else that he's interested in, BUT don't assume anything. Just ask. You'd be amazed at how much "accurate" information you could get by asking someone. He could be sick, depressed, or anything. If you ask him and he gets defensive and angry you may want to do some investigating, but if he is distant and quiet and doesn't want to talk about it very much, it may be something deeper.
2006-07-06 05:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be it's something on his mind that keeps his libido in the dumps. Invite him over to dinner at your place, cook something special, slip into a flimsy neglige' and ply him with hot kisses. If he declines all these overt advances then he's either cheating you or has gone gay. In either case dump him into the garbage can and find yourself another eligible bf. Good Luck to you.
2006-07-06 06:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is going on, you need to ask, look for signs of cheating - unexplained absences etc. 2 months is a long time.
2006-07-06 06:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by njoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is up here!!!!
Either he is cheating or there is something wrong with his penis that he doesnt want you to know about...
It could be something he got from someone else or it could be something that happened naturally but noone just stops cold turkey without an explaination
2006-07-06 05:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the same boat.Denied sex us to be 2times a day 6 days week.now nothing she just turned ice cold.for as she puts it no reason no means no i hear ya .Problem solved move on I am
2006-07-06 05:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by wm j h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out if he is cheating or not.. Because it may be a mistake if you dump him, and soon realize he didn't cheat.. So I say try to find out if he is cheating or not..
2006-07-06 05:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋