i like this guy 2 years older so he is 16. i know this sounds stupid cause we are so young but i think i am close to loving him. i don't want to love him cause i don't know how he feels yet. but all the signs point to that he dose like me. being away from him has made me think about him more. and i think about all the good things. but i also think about all the stupid stuff i have said to him just cause i was nevous at the time. thinking about a person dose make u tend to love the person. false love i know. but still i don't want to get to that stage cause i know when i do there is no going back. i know once i love him it will be so hard to get over. espicaly if all the signs were wrouing and he realy dosen't like me. so now i am confused and i don't want to love him when i see him again but i am so confused of what to do. i try to take my mind off him but i can't ( i try reading and i even volenteer most of the day). i know i won't meet another guy before i see him again. so help soon
2006-07-06 05:41:19 · 6 answers · asked by punk girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u talk to this guy alot if u do then u should not be nevous i mean get that nevous thing out of u and just talk to him and tell him how u feel and if he feel the same way then things will go the way it should go and if he doesnt then tell him u still want to be his close friend and ur not to young to me well i think its too young to know what love is but it can happen in any age my bf is 17 and im 15 i love him so much and he love me so much remember that there is different love that u can not explain theres like IN love and FALL IN love or friendship love so there so much just know which love u in with him.
2006-07-06 05:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie fact is you're just waking up to all of the wonders of relationships. You have found someone that sparks your interest. It is so new and unique in your life to be "interested" in a member of the opposite sex that it feels like love. Rest assured that it is intense because this is new that you are handling it the same way everyone does when they first awaken to these feelings. Know this that just because you are interested in him does not mean that you should take that interest one step farther. You can just don't have to have date or have sex. You can just look at him carefully and say this is the kind of guy I am interested in .... figure out what it is you like and don't like about him. He is the forerunner of "The Man" in your life. Stay calm and keep shopping hon you're too young to buy... you're just checking out the merchandise now. Enjoy the process and let love come later when you and "The Man" are ready for it.
2006-07-06 05:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with having feelings of love before even asking a guy out on a date. The only problem that you may encounter is if he rejects you.Then you're still left with that feeling of love but as unrealistic as it seems, it will come to pass if he rejects you and you will have an opportunity to move on.Good luck!
2006-07-06 05:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not stupid to love someone and this responce is coming out of a 12 yr old girl. if you love him and he loves you then go for it. if he loves you then hes not going to leave you.if signs show you that he likes you then there is nothing to worry about. everything will work out if you just take the first step
2006-07-06 05:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way exzacly
im 14 your not much older
since were young!
justry to get over him,i no its hard,but there plenty of otherguys out there! hopr i helped,goodluk and have fun!
2006-07-06 05:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young... get over it and move on...
2006-07-06 05:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by k.garcia2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋