well theres this one guy that wants to go out with me and like i would but i dont know cause his friends are really good friends with me and they ask me if i want to go out with him but right now i dont know im really confused cause i still like my ex and it's been awhile since we broke up it's been at least 3 months i think and when he broke up with me he really mest things up for me
1. when my moms found out about him she told me not to talk to her and i felt really bad and now im not going out with him and my moms is like i dont know so it like wasnt worth it
2. my grades dropped bad
3. he really hurt me and i still like him
4. his cuz calls perting its my ex when its not and they paly around and im not sure if there tellin the truth
and now im like really confused casue im not sure and his friends that im really good friends with asks me and im not sure casue i think other guys are cute but im not sure and theres some others guys taht like me too not only him what to do?
2006-07-06 05:35:39 · 19 answers · asked by i love him 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should take a break from dating. Trust me, there is so much less drama when you don't have a boyfriend. All those things you listed are the cons of having a boyfriend. Now what are the pros? Companionship? Having a sure date for dances? If the cons outweigh the pros you probably shouldn't have a boyfriend for a while.
2006-07-06 05:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by courtney m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to date around. Test the waters. Do not commit yourself to any one guy now. You can go out with the guy that likes you (strictly platonic) and see if you're compatable. But still date others. It doesn't sound like your ex was a great match. If he's playing jokes on you with his friends knowing you still have feelings for him. That's not cool. You need more time to get over your ex before getting into another relationship.
If you're 13, your focus should not be boys. Focus on school. Improve your grades. You're too young to be in a serious commited relationship.
All the best to you.
2006-07-06 12:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with AfroSistah! though i know what you mean, i went through somewhat of the same thing myself. though i know it would be hard to do considering i'm trying to do so myself, i think you should try to move on from him. break off any ties you have with him and forget him. try to move on and take some time off of dating to get everything with your mom and grades back in order. that's what i did. almost a year ago and i'm starting to date again now that me and my parents are cool and my grades are back to where they were. i will never date the guy i was dating again, because i've had time to think about everything and understand what was going on.
good luck.
2006-07-06 12:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with any of them,if you're only 13,goodness,you've got years and years ahead of you to worry about boys. They're not worth the bother most days anyway,lol. Get your grades up,and make up with your mom,when your life is fixed,THEN worry about dating.
2006-07-06 12:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um ok you sound really yound and this is way to much drama .does this new guy know your ex?or any of your ex's friends?if so then dont go out with him its just gonna start more drama it doesnt really sound like you are to sure about this new guy .just be single for a while until you find some1 that you really really like some1 that you just cant stop thinking about .dont just go out with anybody for the hell of it .good luck and dont ever talk to your ex again
2006-07-06 12:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl and I'm not gay so I might not even know what I'm talking about, but I'm pretty sure I do, give you're ex a second chance, and if he screws you over again, dump his bony @$$ and go out with a different guy.
2006-07-06 12:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by mrpigjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! This question is way to long to even bother reading! Just go for whatever you want! Maybe you should stop smoking so much angel13dust
2006-07-06 12:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Gia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out of state
2006-07-06 12:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by walo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should wait and get over from your last relationship and get your grade back first. You can always get a guy but not your grades.
2006-07-06 12:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geeeez what a loaded question.I'm not sure where to start.But I think you find a new hobby.and slow down with the dating for a while.
2006-07-06 12:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋