Every day for the past year or almost 2years ive been getting on the train to work. And every now and then this girl gets on the same train as me over the months ive became attracted to her and ive noticed her looking at me and smiling trying to get my attention or at least it seems like that and i have kinda been doing the same back. But today not only did we get off at the same station but she was also walking to the same part of the town i was going to i was tempted to talk to her and she was kinda glancing over to me smiling but im too shy to attempt to speak to her and i dont know if she's flirting or not or if ive got the wrong idea. Im not a crazed stalker or anything! she just happens to be going to the same places at the same time as me. Im tempted to ask her out but dont know how to go about it in case i mess things up or she isnt intrerested or she mistakes me for a stalker!! cause if i do im on the same train as her every day! and id be so embarressed! what should i do?
2006-07-06 05:35:27 · 28 answers · asked by Motor Mouth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time you see her, smile back and make a comment about the weather or how late/crowded/the train is. It's also OK to say that you have noticed that she sometimes gets off at the same stp as you and to ask if she lives in the same town - and then to talk about how good/bad a place it is to live.
If she's walking your way, ask if she minds if you walk together. Talk about - oh - anything that comes to mind. Concentrate on being yourself rather than being 'interesting' or thinking about how shy you are. The more genuinely interested you are in her as a person, the easier you will find you will lose your shyness. Also don't forget that girls can be shy, too!
Once she seems interested in talking to you, you can begin to discuss personal likes and dislikes. When your roads part, say how much you enjoyed talking to her. You can also say that it would be nice to meet again and ... well, go from there!
2006-07-06 05:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just say. I've been seeing u on the same train for quite a while, where are u off too? What do u do ther? That sounds interesting, what attracted u to it? Blah Blah Blah. Take it 4rm there Playa.
P.S: I feel the chemistry too btween ya'll.
Don't let a good thing pass u by! Go 4 It. I hope she likes u!
2006-07-06 05:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you sit next to her on your next train ride. bring a book or something intresting for you. if she shares that same interest she may make a comment about it, and that way she will be the first to talk so you dont' have to.
once that happens you can talk about anything and you can find out if you REALLY like her. you know what i mean? a beautiful face with an empty head tsk tsk. but if she has beauty and brains then you've got a winner : )
good luck!
2006-07-06 05:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by Carly j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no prizes for worshipping girls from afar. It frustrates you and she probably thinks you are time waster. Instead speak to her, introduce yourself with your name and say you have noticed her on the train a few times and think she is attractive and would she fancy going for a drink one evening.
The worst that can happen is she says no, if she does thank her for being honest and move on
2006-07-06 05:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by davejckent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might think your weird if the first thing you say is will you go out with me.
she seems like she would want to get to know you before making any decisions.
so try talking to her, because she might not be as nice as your hoping she would be.
or even if she is, and she likes you, she is probably too shy to start the conversation herself.
so you go first! theres nothing wrong with just talking and you never know where this will end up...
have fun anyway!
2006-07-06 05:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to strike up a conversation and get to know her on the train a bit more and then after a little while invite her to dinner or something innocent, and as you build bonds then get closer.
2006-07-06 05:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please speak to her and ask her name. Ask why she is on the train and explain to her why you take the train too. Eventually discuss if she is in a relationship and then you will know if you should continue and pursue her.
If she is not seeing anyone or is not married, then ask her to meet you in a public place and have coffee or tea!
As your speak to her more, you will know more about her and she about you. Then you must decide what is next.
Cheers!
2006-07-06 05:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Clinicalfrog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out cos some day you'll get on the train and she won't be there and the days that follow that will be much worse than if both of you are on it.
2006-07-06 05:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by bryanocarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the bejesus have you waited 2 years!?! Introduce yourself next time you see her, if she really is behaving the way you say she is she'll be only too happy to converse with you, and if she isn't at least you'll have your answer.
2006-07-06 05:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sian J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strike an ordinary conversation like the weather and the train. One topic leads to another and you can take it from there.
2006-07-06 05:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋