2006-07-06 05:25:52 · 28 answers · asked by Henry W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Secrets of Love
The first secret: the power of love. Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help recognize him or her when you meet.
The second secret: the power of respect. You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself? " To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, "What do I respect about them?"
The third secret: the power of giving. If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of you can take.
The fourth secret: the power of friendship. To find true love you must first find a true friend. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
The fifth secret: the power of touch. Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
The sixth secret: the power of letting go. If you love something, let it be free. Even in a loving relationship, people need their space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions.
The seventh secret: the power of communication. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know; that you love and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say, "I love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise and acknowledge someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word ... it could be the last time you see them.
The eighth secret: the power of commitment. If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong, loving one.
The ninth secret: the power of passion. Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone. It comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. The essence of love and happiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
The tenth secret: the power of trust. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Trust yourself, trust others and trust the world. It is the foundation for LOVE.
2006-07-06 05:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by sharjish 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For me the most important secret of love is doing all you can to make others happy and placing their needs before your own.
Love is being understanding,compassionate and long suffering. Love teaches to be humble and quiet when all you want to do is lash out at someone who hurts you deeply. Sometimes love requires you to be serious yet considerate and caring.Love is an action and not a feeling.Love is the sacrifices you go through for someone else.
2006-07-06 05:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by the talker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion,The secret of love is the secret of couple that are in love together.
2006-07-06 05:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by -|-StarDust-|- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret of love is to remember it is always give and take and never one sided.
2006-07-06 05:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by lovestosweep43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for the "perfect person". They don't exist. Instead, look for someone who is perfect for YOU. Their little dysfunctions match and compliment your own. Their wacky sense of humor jives with yours. They have a gap between their teeth or a little pudge on their tummy and that is ok with you. Don't try to reconfigure a person to suit you, accept them as they are and be thankful for them.Find that and you have found the secret to love.
2006-07-06 05:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret of love ! is love !!!!
2006-07-06 05:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, understanding. second, all else stems from the first secret. if both can understand each other, they would know the secret of love.
2006-07-06 05:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by neelakh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is love. with the intention to precise and understand love, you could understand love. with the intention to charm to close the fullness of affection, you could understand God. The extra you understand Him, the extra you understand love, and the extra you could understand and exhibit genuine love. this does not advise that an atheist can not love, for the love of God has had a rippling result because the starting up of time. those who've under no circumstances wide-spread Him have considered His love accomplished contained in the lives and moves of others. yet to charm to close it totally, you could understand Him.
2016-11-05 23:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is love... try to care for another person the way God cares for you. It is really a very difficult thing to do. That means that if they hurt you and say sorry that you never mention it to them again, love is however the only thing that cannot die... so if you have found it cling, honor it because it will be with you for always.
2006-07-06 05:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no secret. It's very simple when you find the one for you.
2006-07-06 05:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are none!!!!! True love is hard to come by so when it happens there should be no secrets left. LOVE JUST HAPPENS!!!!!!
2006-07-06 05:30:14 · answer #11 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋