I'm dating a girl 17 years older than me. We have been together 3 years. Why is she dating me, a 25 year old.
2006-07-06 05:25:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There could be many reasons, I do not know either of you, so I am not willing to begin to guess.
What I can tell you is that if you are both serious about each other and you are both in love with each other then if you both desire it you can create a loving, lasting relationship that will span many years.
My love, my life, my darling beautiful wife Laura and I, have as large of an age difference as you two ( Laura is 18 years older than I am ) and we will be celebrating our 23 wedding anniversary this year. We are best friends ( despite the joking around you might see here occasionally between us ), soul mates and continue to be in love with a passion so true and deep that it still swoons me each and every day.
I wish you both the best and if you so decide, may you have countless years of bliss with each other.
2006-07-06 05:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by rodneycrater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this day and time age is not that big of a deal. If she didn't love you she would have dropped you a long time ago. You must be very mature 25 year old. I like them younger too. Mine is 7 years younger than me. You should look at things this way: there are things she can teach you and things you can teach her that is probably what rocks both of your worlds and makes the relationship work.
2006-07-06 12:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by appleblossom1228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend has been through a lot and two different fathers to her children. Then one day she found a man that made her very happy they like the same things do the same and they are 10 years different
2006-07-06 12:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been dating for 3 years and you don't know why, the age difference is not your problem.
2006-07-06 12:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Gatorgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years? Obviously the reason she is dating you is that she cares for you. I beleive once you are over the age 24 - age doesn't matter. It is the maturity factor that does. Congrats and good luck!
2006-07-06 12:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by caitlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder the same thing about my gf who is over 10 years younger. It's simple, you can't control who you love. You're both adults so just go with it; that's the conclusion we came to as well and it has been a wonderful relationship.
2006-07-06 12:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating her? Your going against every natural desire to be with a younger more fertile woman. Get out there and find a woman more your age.
2006-07-06 12:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something more than your age obviously attracts her. Be happy you've got someone to care about you. Many people are alone & lonely. Remember age is just a number when it comes to love........
2006-07-06 12:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you must have a good relationship and really loves you. I would say age does not matter. age is nothing but a number. love comes and you cannot decide or control who you love.
2006-07-06 12:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by kisha l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually...Rose is right !
she is probably at the peak of her sex drive curve....
and...u ....R DA MAN !!
Lol !
Sorry ! didnt mean to make u go red in the face..
But yeah technically,
a guy of ur age can easily satiate her craving for sexual gratification.
another reason is that many women date younger men to overcome the fact of 'aging'; to feel more attractive.
and...
also that they r really happy to nurture a younger guy who makes her happy.
2006-07-06 12:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋