My Boyfried and i broke up in february, but on the forth i went with him and his amily to a picnic because we are still friends, but while we were there, he started to kiss me and stuff like that then asked if we could get back together. The reason why webroke up isbecause he lied to me alot. so im not sure if i still trust him?
2006-07-06 05:18:51 · 53 answers · asked by Riley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What he lied about was breaking up with his last girlfriend.When we were dateing he told me he broke up with her but then oneday i was at his house and she showed up.
2006-07-06 05:25:07 · update #1
I still do like him alot, i don't "love" him though?
2006-07-06 05:37:08 · update #2
do not trust him! if you find it hard to resist him, stay away from him! you do not want to be in a relationship with a liar because it means he doesn't respect you. you should never be in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you!
2006-07-06 05:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by way325 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You def. have to follow your heart in a situation like this! Nobody can tell you whats best to do except for you because you know the whole situation and the feelings involved! But Trust is a big part of a relationship, and if he lied once he may lie again! But then on the other hand he may have relized what a good thing he lost! Just take things slow and let you heart work out the details for you!
2006-07-06 06:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feeling is right - the tickle in your stummack when you kiss, you might give him a second chance. The two of you need to talk about what happened and how you'd like to have your relationship going in the future once and for all.
You need to consider though: Never to use against him what happened before. This is a new start remember. If he cant change, and start lieing again, you are free to go. Only drawback is that you might get hurt once more. But that is life. What is pleasure if we cant know sorrow?
2006-07-06 05:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through cause I went out with an ex on the fourth that wants to give it a try again. But due to the fact he lied to me a lot I am not sure either. However I can say is follow your first instinct.. If it says don't trust him then he is not worth your time.
2006-07-06 05:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!!! If He lied back then, he will lie now. Once a lier always a lier. Some people just can't help lying. If I were you, I would just remain friends with him, I would not go back into a relationship; especially if you broke up way back in February. There is no telling who or what he has been "Doing" since then. Be smart!!!!
2006-07-06 05:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by Shayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he stop lying to you? There are no consequences. You are so desperate that you'll take him back no matter what - at least, that's how it'll look to him. If you keep going back to him, what will be his motivation to treat you any different from how he has? He has shown you how he is and that's it. If you like being lied to, go back to him and get some more. If you want to be treated better, get someone else.
2006-07-06 05:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by SAN P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always think of relationships as business transactions.
If u were an important client to ur boyfriend, wud he have mistreated u in the first place?
Being the client, wud u give his service a second chance. I ges if u valued ur business, the answer wud be NO.
Bt if not, and u were willing to give him a second chance then go 4 it Girl! I'd take my business elsewhere. Where I'm much more appreciated!
2006-07-06 05:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let him get away with lying by taking him back, he's going to expect to be able to get away with it all the time. If you can't trust him for lying to you before, what makes you think that he has changed and won't lie to you now? I'm not sure what he lied about before, but if you want to get back together with him, tell him if you catch him in one lie, your gone. You won't be his girlfriend and you won't stay his friend.
2006-07-06 05:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dangerzone. Don't get all soft on him. We girls are always like that, letting our hearts rule when it's time our heads rule. Ask yourself - did he feel regretful and apologized sincerely for all the lies he told? in any relationship, if there's no trust, there's no hope. run gal, go get someone who'll love and not lie to you. take care!
2006-07-06 05:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi!
i think thats better to not trust him more, dont give him another chance!
he is so immature so unstabled.mature boy doesnt break up seriously and asks for getting back again!
if u wanna be with a boy who u can trust more! and even think about marriage with him for future ,do not give this boy another chance, and try to find a lovly understading honest man!
take care
2006-07-06 05:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by ___ãÃâãhà 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean your not sure if you still trust him? Did you trust him to start out with? If he is still lying no I would not get back together with him because guaranteed that it doesn't stop there. Been there done that one.
2006-07-06 05:23:36 · answer #11 · answered by joeslyn_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋