of a big, beautiful woman than the younger man who likes a flatter,
thinner body? Can any of you men explain this to me? Just curious!
2006-07-06 05:15:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because older men appreciate perfection
2006-07-06 05:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's probably because younger men are taught (through T.V., movies, MTV, etc.) that if the woman you are with is "hot" you will be hot too. It isn't until they gain knowledge about life that they realize, looks aren't everythng and having a "hot" chick on your arm doesn't make you any hotter. There are so many larger, beautiful women in this world - look at Queen Latifah - talk about a beautiful woman! The gift is inside the box, but younger men would rather look at the wrapping!
2006-07-06 05:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by redhot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in many cases it is simply a preference that has nothing to do with the man's age. In others, it is a case in which he can no longer *get* the petite girls.
Love takes many forms, just like bodies do. If you're a BBW ... just find yourself a guy who likes *you*, whether or not he's drawn to larger women or not.
Sometimes, we try to look too deeply into other people's motivation for liking us and it can really spoil what might become a great relationship.
Don't make that mistake, honey ... just enjoy the attention!
2006-07-06 05:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the older you get the more mature you become. Many people are shallow when they are younger and only go for the model types ignoring personality and other traits they bring to the table. As you get older you start to realize that the curvier, full-figured women offer so much more than the wafer thin types with no IQ.
2006-07-06 05:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, the younger generation's interest lie in what they are told. Look around, skinny chicks are everywhere and getting positive exposure for being that way. Whether professionally or in the convience store, society embraces the skeletal structure. They say that thin is in but I say a little weight is the way.
P.S.-Sometimes it's an male ego thang, you know?
2006-07-06 05:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman but I want to answer anyway. =0P You said it yourself.... they are mature. They have learned that the outside packaging is not all there is to a woman. When they were younger they bowed to peer pressure and what was acceptable to society. Now that they are older they don't really care what other people say. They want what they want and that is a woman who is more that just a pretty package.
2006-07-06 05:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because as the men get older, the women get more curvy and "full". The ones that take care of themselves and stay in shape are already taken or too young for us, unfortunately.
2006-07-06 05:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's because older men have gotten mostly through the shallow part and have started to look for the things that really matter to them, like personality and commitment...
2006-07-06 05:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have noticed that 2. Im 20, i am attracted to older men. My fiance is 31. I am full figured. "boys" my age wont even notice me. But very attractive older men willgive me their time. That is strange!!
2006-07-06 05:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by ncbutterfly_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they know that is what they are stuck with. All of the thin hot women go for the attractive, younger males. It is survival of the hottest, and large women are at the bottom of the food chain.
2006-07-06 05:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by jmthomb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋