i dont want to play myself by telling him he can come back and his pride wont allow him to say he wants to come back...but the truth is i am so heartbroken. im having a hard time getting past this. what to do?
2006-07-06 05:10:29 · 14 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
didnt mean to offend anyone with the 25 and older thing...i just didnt want any 13 and 14 year olds ansewering this grown up question.
2006-07-06 05:18:19 · update #1
Move on. Odds are he couldn't find anything to replace you with so now he wants to come back. That does not mean he wants you. That just means that he'll hang around until he finds something better.
2006-07-06 05:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 27
Go ahead and move on. I don't have a polite way to say this, but people are replaceable. I know your hurt, but don't worry, heartaches last just for a little while. If you take him back, you will spend your whole time wondering either does he really love you or what can you do to make him happier. Don't change a thing about yourself. If he can't handlee himself when times are tough, then forget him, you'll do just fine, good luck
2006-07-06 13:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by j_a_f_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he won't be back. And IF he DOES come back, he'll just string you along for a while and probably dump you again, and you'll be right back here in 6 months or a year. Do you want to do that to yourself??
Get on with your life. There are WAY better people out there.
2006-07-06 12:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heartbreak is hard to get past, but you can do it. In cases like this you have to be careful that you are not falling into that comfortable shoe category. When there is no else to turn to he knows that you will be there, but if he thinks that a better prospect has come along he will drop you again.
2006-07-06 12:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Deborah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely go over in you head just why you broke up, and makes sure before making any decisions on whether to get back with him or not you know that he will not do the same thing again real soon.
2006-07-06 12:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
am only 19 but you said 25 and over and i don't want to be disrespectful i hope you get some serious answers
well if he really wanted to be with yo he would have never broken up with you you have to want to move on in order to get over him you won't get over him in a day maybe not even a month but you have to let your heart tell you all the wrong he did to you and the way he hurt you guys will be guys and not all are alike
2006-07-06 12:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 26........... If you truly love him, take him back. If you want him back just to have someone to be with....get over it! If he treated you good take him back. If he didn't treat you good....leave him in the past and move on. Do you want to "get past this" or do you want a chance with him? If you are unsure and are miserable without him, you should give it one more chance, if for no other reason than just to know for sure what the relationship could have been. Good luck!!!!!!
2006-07-06 12:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a little time and see what happens. He might have jumped the gun and acted to quickly but alot depends on the circumstances that occurred causing the break up
2006-07-06 12:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hunny, that's so classic. Hold out on excepting him back and make him want you bad!!! keep yourself busy during your heartbreak and don't give in so easy because then he will know for sure he can play you again. guys always realize they know they got something good when its gone. so be gone for a little bit and play hard to get. make him think some guys are interested in you. hey, guys like a challenge, so give him one!! i know you are probabley thinking you don't want to play games, but guys and girls are so different thats what we have to do to figure each other out. so hang in there sweetie, chin up, and get luck in the venture!!
2006-07-06 12:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a case of another bird didn't pan out how he wanted, so he thought he'd chance his arm with u again, see if you'd have him back.
times a great healer
2006-07-06 12:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Beav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋