Would you ever consider letting someone tie you up and tickle you?

Question

I am extremely ticklish and would like to find a way of controlling it. My gf suggested that she tie me up and tickle me. She said this way I would have no choice but to endur it and maybe I could learn some controll that way. I just don't know about that, I don't think I could handle that at all, especially if she didn't stop.
PLease, I need some suggestions here

Answer 1

I have done it several times and I love it! The most important things before you allow anybody to tie you and tickle you are:

1. RESPECT. You have to know that she will respect you enough to stop when you really want her to stop. You have to know that she respects you enough that she is not tickling you solely for her own enjoyment but because she is trying to keep it fun and playful for you, too

2. TRUST. You need to be able to trust that she will give you the air breaks you need and she will release you when you have truly had enough. You also need to trust yourself to open up and allow yourself to enjoy the playful tickling. It IS okay to laugh and enjoy it. It IS okay to try not to block the tickling. It IS okay to try not to say “NO!!!!” or “STOP!!!” because of how much it tickles. Try to push your own limits and have fun with it - trusting that she will stop when you really need her to stop.

3. DESIRE. When your girlfriend tickles you, she has to have the desire to keep it FUN and PLAYFUL for both of you - not just her. If she is not committed to keeping it fun for you then you will not feel comfortable with the tickling and you will never trust her to tie you and tickle you again. From what I am reading into your post, she would love to build a tickling aspect into your relationship so it is a pretty safe bet that she wants to make it as fun as possible for you so that you will add more tickling to the relationship.

4. SAFEWORDS. For many people, it is natural (and almost uncontrollable) to say ‘NO!!!!’ or ‘STOP!!!’ when they are being tickled. Many times, they are actually enjoying the tickling but the word betray their lips or they kind of want you to stop but they also want you to keep going. For that reason, it is better to use a safe word when you really need to take a break or you need the tickling to stop. The most common safe words are “MERCY” and “RED” (as in red light means stop). This will allow you to laugh and beg and plead for the tickling to stop even when you are trying to push yourself to take more but when you actually utter the safe word, the tickling MUST stop!

5. RETALIATION. This is not actually a requirement but it sure is fun! If she gets to tie you and tickle you for 30 minutes or 60 minutes, you should have the same opportunity to get her back! ( I am sure that she will love it!)

6. FINGERNAILS. Please be sure that your fingernails (and hers) are filed smooth or the nails may scratch and hurt too much. Smooth nails are not painful and they tickle a lot more!

7. TOYS. Again, not a requirement but it can help the situation. The use of ostrich feathers and soft paint brushes can add a lot to a fun and successful tickling encounter. They offer a pure and painless tickle and they work almost everywhere on the body.

I hope this helps a lot and HAPPY TICKLES!!!!!!!

Answer 2

You are treading into dark territory, my friend. You would be giving total control to your girlfriend. The first thing you need to decide is if you trust her 100 percent. If not, don't do it. If you do, you should talk to her about a code word or something like that. In other words, if your code word was "yellow", she would know that she was to stop tickling you the second she heard that word come out of your mouth. If you trust her that much and know she would stop, and want to give total control to her, go for it.

Answer 3

I'm very ticklish, and I love getting tied up & tickled.
But that isn't a way of "controlling it".
Being ticklish is a physical response, it means you're sensitive.
You can get used to it, you can get over your fear of it, but you can't just learn to stop being ticklish.
Being tied up is a trust exercise. If you don't trust that she'll stop, that's something to work on. You can use a "safeword" that tells her she has to stop.

Answer 4

Listen u dunt have 2 control being ticklish jus let ur gurlfriend tickle u gently it will bring the relationship closer and you'll probably end up havin sex

Answer 5

I think in a provacative way she just wants to tie you up and sexually arouse you lol. And for being ticklish it is something your born with and I don't think there is a way to control it but I could be wrong

Answer 6

what's this "nature" you imagine does the utilising? Earth is continuously illuminated with 173 petawatts of sunlight. in case you're taking a greenhouse gas like CO2 and and double it, you'll impact how that quantity of potential bypass behaves. guy is putting the boots to that potential bypass by using dumping a million kilograms/second of CO2 into the ambience and an vast quantity of warm temperature is being retained the position it wasn't earlier. i'd say you've been extremely uninformed.

Answer 7

she sounds like a whore, I am ticklish too, just accept it. As should she, not being a whore. Have a talk, she needs to accept it. And not tickle u, it's wrong.

Answer 8

i dont know if anyone can just get over being tickleish...if its not a fear than u shouldnt have to worry about the problem.
if u dont want to be tickled just tell people how u are about it and ask not to be tickled...unless it is the right time by the right person

Answer 9

I've had great experiences with this as well...always the tickle victim though.

Using ace bandages for bondage is more comfortable to me

Answer 10

i think she wants to tie u down so she can have her way with u ;)but, seriously if u trust her enough let her, it could be fun and who knows what everything could lead to. u could have a really good time!