Why am i so mean and stuck up?

Question

I am very beautiful well people always tell me. I happen to get any guy i would like to date but then after few weeks he would stop talking to me.If i ask the reason he would say your demanding/selfish/stuck up/you think other person is your slave.I feel really bad,i dont know how to change this.Any suggestions would be greatly appriciated.

Answer 1

Maybe you should consider what a multitude of men are telling you. Perhaps you do treat them like a servant? I think you need to spend some time examining yourself.

Answer 2

Take a step back, have a long hard think about what these men R saying 2 U.
If U C truth in their comments, it'd B best 2 work on it now B4 U get 2 set in your ways & end up a lonely old maid.
Set UR self goals 2 B less selfish/demanding/stuckup take 1 at a time & eradicate 1 a week from 2day.
Stick 2 it, 1 a week, kill the nasty habit dead!

Answer 3

When your guy friend told you you were demanding, selfish, stuck up, etc...he gave you alot of information...just because you are so beautiful on the outside doesn't mean you can keep a man. You must be beautiful on the inside too....like considerate, thought-full, and help-full to others. Sounds like to me you are spoiled, and you think it is cute, I could be wrong. You said people are always telling you you are beautiful and now it has went to your head. I suggest you go to a nursing home or hospital and do some volunteer work, it will change your whole attitude.---ella

Answer 4

It's great to feel good about yourself because you should. It's more attractive to be confident and know who you are than it is to be just beautiful on the outside. I've seen both girls and guys that aren't the best looking, but have so much confidence that they are more attractive than the people that are just naturally good looking.

If you're getting the same reasons from all the guys you date then reevaluate yourself and ask why you do the things you do. If you truly want to change you must decide within yourself to do that. I think the best thing to start off with is kindness and a genuine smile.

Answer 5

Practice being humble. Volunteer at a homeless shelter or animal shelter. You are in desperate need of coming down to a lower level. Are you rich? Are you Paris Hilton? If not, you should have no reason to treat people this way. I think I have to help blame your family here. Maybe your family gave you everything you always wanted.

Practice being nice to people. Think about what you say before you say it. Think whether what you say or how you act is nice or if you would like to be treated in that way. Watch yourself in a mirror when you talk on the phone. See your own reactions to things people say or do.

Try to stop being demanding. Do things for yourself. If you are going to college soon, live away from home so you don't have your family to do everything for you. If you live at home, make your own bed and clean your own room. Cook for yourself. You sound like you've been treated like a baby for way too long!

Answer 6

In the first place, I give you credit for taking an honest look at yourself. It is unfortunate but true that many very attractive people do not have to work hard to get what they want in life --- to a point. One day they realize though, that they should have spent time cultivating their brains (not just their looks) & personalities too. One day those great looks will fade, and then what wll you have left?
Try this, everyday promise yourself to do something nice for two or three people, without them asking you to do it first.
You may realize:
a) it's not all about you
b) that caring about & being nice to other people is a rewarding experience.
Then people will start to see that you are actually a nice person under all that exterior glamour :-)

Good Luck.

Answer 7

Are your arms broke. Get stuff for yourself. You are a person on aplanet the revolves around the sun. The world doesn't revovle around you. I not saying this to be mean, just trying to let you know billions of people survive their whole lives without knowing you even exist. If you thinkn you don't like other people, actually take a half a sec to see if you kind find something that you do like about them. Because it sounds like that's the problem people having with you. Beauty is only a part of the whole, you need to work on the whole part. Anyone can change anything about themselves if they are willing to.

Answer 8

you better change and fast or expect to have a very unhappy life. stop believing you are beautiful. true beauty is internal. try taking an interest in someone who is not attractive and needs a good friend.you may not really be into it at first but it will quickly make you feel good and you will discover it is a great experience to care more about someone other than yourself.this will make you a better person and people will be drawn to you. you will develop lasting relationships with both sexes.

Answer 9

The world does not revolve around you. Try to recall any times during the dates when you were "stuck up". If you do, learn from those mistakes. But Mr. Perfect will come. But others have lives also, and they demand equal respect. If you think that they will do this or that for you, clear the thought and do it yourself. I bet that you will help. Avoid agruements to, if something bad happens: just apologize, and move on with your relationship.

hoped that helped

Answer 10

I am sure your not as bad as you saw you are; mabey your just a confident and assertive person, but if you have noticed people commenting on your 'stuck-up' nature, mabey it's time for a little change. In your next relationship try listening more perhaps, you can still be yourself and just learn how to consider other people feelings and be kind towards others. Treat others-the way you want to be treated.

Answer 11

When we are young, it is hard to see beyond that image in the mirror. Lines in the face start to show, everything starts to sag eventually. As we age we begin to be humble. You are just being young. As a woman of 52, I will have to say that "you get wiser with every 10 years of life you live." And you begin to think of things that really matter. The truly important things in life..Such as family, friendships..A smile, a helping hand, a kind word..a hug..won't cost a dime to give..but can make all the difference in someone's life. All this aside, In the end, it is what you think of yourself that truly matters.