How could I know if he really loves me...?

Question

or is just infatuation?

Answer 1

If he starts getting nervous when you're around, and acts strangely ( not the way he normally acts), starts calling way too many times,if he starts inviting over too much and buying you dinner and every thing, if he start kissing and hugging you, yup girl it means he loves you.

Answer 2

when someone loves you, they want to do everything for and with you. they would put you first in everything. trust me, you will be able to see that right away. they listen to you when you cry. your pain is their pain and your joy theirs and your problems theirs too. infatuation is not like that. infatuation goes away quickly. infatuation is just the feeling you get when you're excited to see him or he sees you but it's not deep like love. it's only on the surface. all i can say is that it is not love because you would not have asked the question. when it is love, you will defenetly know it. there is no question about it. the infatuation could turn to love or it may not. but good luck

Answer 3

Don't have sex with him for a while and see if he sticks around. If you have ALREADY had sex, tell him that you have been thinking about people that wait until marriage, and you'd like to experiment for a few weeks to see if it makes the act more special and intimate when you finally do it again. If he can take a break from the physical aspect and still be in love with you, he's a keeper.

Answer 4

if he looks at u with his eyes and u know u are safe with him. he make u feel like nothing could ever hurt u and if something dose he will protect u. he will be there for the good and the bad. he will always trust u unless u ave broken his trust. even then he will not stop loving u. he will treat u like no other man would but in a good way. u will just know.

Answer 5

Age makes a kind of difference. This is a good task for the parents. You cant go this alone because you are not sure of the terrain, but your parents should be. You are tasking your freedom beyond its limit and it is not elastic enough to go this stress.
Are you ready for marriage or just for love? If ready for marriage, Good Luck, if love or lost, you are in for a kind of experiment that no one has ever passed without bruises. You cannot get love at this level, not even onfatuation induced kind of fondness.
Choose wisely.

Answer 6

You really want an acid test ? Just permit the only physical intimacy between the two of you, is holding hands in piblic in daylight for 1year. I bet you, you will find the answer much sooner than that.

Answer 7

If he loves you, then he will tell you. And he wont just say it to get you off his back, he'll say it for no reason, or you'll do something cute and he'll say it.
If he loves you, then waking up next to you on your worst day is not a problem.
If he loves you, he enjoys taking care of you.
If he loves you, he'll listen to you without criticizing you.
If he loves you, then he'll be patient, understanding, caring, and everything else in between

Best wishes and good luck!

Answer 8

men dont speak of their love but the way he treats you,you can make out if he really loves you or not.a guy (now my husband) never told me before that he loved me...but he used to hold my hand tight while crossing the road,he escorted me everywhere i went,my success meant his success,he helped me a lot with the office work too...
so you see...love is not saying "i love you"...its the feelings and care that matter most..
just look out for the signs that say that he cares for you a lot and you'll know if he loves you or not.

Answer 9

U will just know. If u 2 feel like one. Think alike. The way he treat u .... u can see it in his eyes when he say l love u if he is real.

Answer 10

You can find out if a man really loves you by seeing if he offers you his last bite of food, if he does, then it's love because that tells you that he's willing to go that extra mile to make you happy and he's willing to give you his all without question of why he's giving it to you.