According to the calendar my husband is a Leo and I'm a Pisces, but I don't believe in such superstitious. We've been together for 18 years and we get along very well. My husband s a hard working man, very special in many ways. Very caring, very gentle and everyone gets alone with him, he is very popular here where we live.
Just respect him, and don't inverses him in front of people. If you are upset with him, wait until your guys are alone. When asking for something that you might need or want, ask gently with a lick in his ear. Like tapping a wet kiss.
Don't do nothing behind his back, make sure he knows everything.
But the do's and don'ts are below so we can have a good life, with our husband and our surroundings.
Integrity
DO: Stand up for your beliefs • Follow your conscience • Be honorable and upright • Live by your principles no matter what others say • Have the courage to do what is right and to try new things even when it is hard or costly • Build and guard your reputation
DON’T: Do anything wrong • Lose heart if you fail or don’t get what you want
Honesty
DO: Tell the truth and nothing but the truth • Be sincere • Be forthright and candid
DON’T: Lie • Cheat • Steal • Be sneaky, tricky, or deceptive
Reliability
DO: Keep your promises • Honor your word and commitments • Be dependable • Do what you are supposed to do • Return what you borrow • Pay your debts • Be on time
Loyalty
DO: Stand by and protect your family, friends, school and country • Be a good friend • Look out for those who care about you • Keep secrets of those who trust you
DON’T: Betray a trust • Let your friends hurt themselves • Do anything just so others will like you • Ask a friend to do anything wrong or spread gossip that could hurt others
Golden Rule
DO: Treat others the way you want to be treated • Respect the dignity, privacy and freedom of all individuals • Value and honor all people, no matter what they can do for you or to you • Respect others’property — take good care of property you are allowed to use and don’t take or use property without permission • Respect the autonomy of others — tell them what they should know to make good choices about their own lives
DON’T: Use or manipulate others • Abuse, demean, or mistreat anyone
Tolerance and Acceptance
DO: Judge others on their character, abilities, and conduct without regard to race, religion, gender, where they live, how they dress, or the amount of money they have • Be tolerant, respectful, and accepting of those who are different from you • Listen to others and try to understand their points of view
Nonviolence
DO: Resolve disagreements, respond to insults, and deal with anger peacefully and without violence
DON’T: Use threats or physical force to get what you want or to express anger
Courtesy
DO: Use good manners • Be courteous, polite and civil to everyone
DON’T: Use put-downs, insults, yelling, or ridicule to embarrass or hurt another
Duty
DO: Know and do your duty • Acknowledge and meet your legal and moral obligations
Accountability
DO: Accept responsibility for the consequences of your choices, not only for what you do but what you don’t do • Think about consequences on yourself and others before you act • Think long-term • Do what you can do to make things better • Set a good example
DON’T: Look the other way when you can make a difference • Make excuses or blame others
Pursuit of Excellence
DO: Your best • Persevere • Be prepared • Be diligent • Work hard • Make all you do worthy of pride
Self-Control
DO: Take charge of your own life • Set realistic goals • Keep a positive outlook • Be prudent and self-disciplined with your health, emotions, time and money • Be rational — act out of reason not anger, revenge or fear • Know the difference between what you have a right to do and what is right to do • Be self-reliant — manage your life so you are not dependent on others; pay your own way whenever you can
Justice
DO: Be fair and just • Treat people equally • Make decisions without favoritism or prejudice • In imposing punishment be sure the consequences for wrongdoing are consistent, certain, and proportional (not too harsh or lenient)
DON’T: Take more than your fair share • Take advantage of or blame others unfairly
Openness
DO: Be open-minded and impartial — consider what people have to say before you decide • Be careful — get the facts, including opposing viewpoints, before making decisions (especially blaming or accusing another)
Concern for Others
DO: Be compassionate and empathetic • Be kind, loving, and considerate • Be thankful and express gratitude for what people do for you • Forgive others for their shortcomings
DON’T: Be mean, cruel or insensitive
Charity
DO: Be charitable and altruistic — give money, time, support, and comfort for the sake of making someone else’s life better, not for praise or gratitude • Help people in need
Do Your Share
DO: Be a good citizen and a good neighbor • Care about and pursue the common good • Be a volunteer — help your school and community be better, cleaner, and safer • Protect the environment by conserving resources, reducing pollution, and cleaning up after yourself • Participate in making things better by voicing your opinion, voting, serving on committees, reporting wrongdoing and paying taxes
Respect Authority and the Law
DO: Play by the rules • Obey parents, teachers, coaches, and others who have been given authority • Observe just laws • Honor and respect principles of democracy
Have a Good day!
2006-07-06 11:35:20
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