Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now, its a long distance relationship.. Recently my boyfriend told me about a week ago that he is ready for me to be his wife and he wants to marry me RIGHT NOW, but i dont know what he really meant by that, but anyway, he told me how he feels and everything he even cried and i was so happy and excited that i cried also. Well at the end of this month my boyfriend will go out to sea for a month. I can tell that he is really stressed out and tried from work cause we dont really talk so much, mainly because Im in a different location can i cant get a phone singal out here... But we talk every chance we get. Lately ive noticed that he seems stressed all the time, im so worried about him, he just cant seem to have time to himself because hs friend and family always call him or want him to do favors, Its hard to just sit back and not keep asking him what's wrong I know he has to be a man and deal with stuff I dont know what to do
2006-07-06 04:15:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, first of all don't marry a desperate man before he goes to sea! He IS stressed out about leaving home, not about leaving you. You will only make it worse if you get involved. Let him "vent" to you, and listen to him. I have a feeling when he's gone for a while, things will calm down and you two can get back to the relationship and growing together. This is NOT the time to marry or to butt -in. Just be there for him...and let him know you will be writing and emailing him when he's gone. It will all work it's self out, I promise. Good Luck.
2006-07-06 04:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-10 19:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋