but he wants to do it like, NOW. wat shud he do? he said he's gonna dump her cuz its not fair.
2006-07-06 04:05:56 · 48 answers · asked by dyboy34 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
thats what i told him. i said he should respect her but then he started gettin mad at me n saying that i was just a pus$y
2006-07-06 04:08:49 · update #1
he is very shallow and if he is going to dump her because he cannot have sex, then she should be dumped and free to date a REAL MAN!!!
2006-07-06 05:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
She should dump him for not respecting her opinion. He obviously does not truly care about her and is only after the sex. If he wants it like NOW he should find someone who wants it like NOW and not change that girl's morals. Just because he's morally weak doesn't mean she has to be. Those two are better off not together. She needs someone who can respect her and he wants a whore, they don't sound very compatible.
2006-07-06 04:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Candice H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see where that would be a problem. But he should ask himself. Am I really ready to be a father. Do I make enough money to support a wife and child. That was for a reason.
And it wasn't entertainment. I would like to be an astronaught
but I am just not prepared for the journey.
If she is a tramp and they get married she will probably run around on him and make his life a living hell.
If she has morals and he marries her, she will probably be loyal to him all his life and make him very happy. His choice but he is probably losing the best thing that ever came alone in his life for what a horror
2006-07-06 04:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't respect the wishes of his girlfriend then she will be better off without him. He obviously has a lot of growing up to do.
You on the other hand seem to understand at least that the more mature thing to do is to respect her. Don't ever let your friends pressure you into making the wrong decisions yourself.
2006-07-06 04:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by sassy sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should give her the respect she deserves for wanting to stay pure. If he doesn't, it is called RAPE. If he can't then he should dump her because there are guys out there that deserve her more than he does. Maybe he should ask himself why he wants sex now. does he love her? Does he just want to spoil a precious gift? Or does he just want to spred STD's? Ever heard of herpagonasphalaids?
2006-07-06 04:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's going to dump a girl because she won't 'give it up', then he doesn't care about her.
He should honor the girl's virtuous integrity. She has great self-esteem and it's wonderful that a girl, in these days, is courageous enough to preserve herself for the sanctity of marriage. What a wonderful gift she'll give her husband.
:)
SHE should dump him because he obviously doesn't have the same morals.
It's not too late to find them, though!
:)
2006-07-06 04:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by snugglebunnies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said no. What's the issue. He either respects that or splits, one or the other. That's not a problem, it's a decision he needs to make. "What should he do"?? He should get out of her life and let her have a chance to find a nice guy.
2006-07-06 04:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it sounds like your friend is not only selfish but immature as well. He obviously just wants her for sex and not because he really truly loves her. If he did, he wouldn't be pressuring her or calling it unfair - he would understand and be patient. Tell him if he doesn't want to wait, to go find someone else that will give it up and to leave this nice, virgin alone. He doesn't deserve her.
2006-07-06 04:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by SBean_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he should dump her. If the sex is that important to him, then find a girl of the same mind. he may regret dumping her if she's a sweet girl, but only he can learn that lesson. Don't make her life hell just b/c he wants sex.
2006-07-06 04:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to dump the jerk and if he is that bad off tell him to go handle it himself. This girl is doing somthing that is wonderful and society is teaching to have protection instead of waiting till marriage. I wish to God i wouldve waited. I know it wouldve been very difficult for me but after the fact it wouldve been worth it. There are plenty of girls who will give it to him now but guys want the virgin and for a girls fist time it isnt that pleasurable. Ice water does good for a hot head.
2006-07-06 04:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Airman_P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to respect her wishes. If she wants to wait, and he doesn't then his best bet is to just end the relationship. But it's pretty sad when he's staying so he can try to get laid. If he wants to get some, tell him to pick up a two bit whore at the bar.
2006-07-06 04:08:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋