So you have been to Bangladesh, Saudi Arabia and India ... but you are afraid of traveling to your boy friend in Pakistan ... Interesting ...
You know something ... I almost believed you .. and i felt sorry for you ... and i really wanted to help you to get together you and your friend ... i never thought that you are just deceiving me ...
As for your Question ... which i will consider as "Why a Muslim Woman can't marry a Non-Muslim man?" .. because i really can't believe that this story is true or that you have been to India ...
Muslim Woman can't marry a Non-Muslim man because:
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The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said; “Islam prevails and is not prevailed over.” Narrated by al-Daaraqutni and others; classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’ (2778).
It is well known that the husband is in charge of his wife (qawaamah) and his status within the family is higher than that of his wife. Perhaps this higher position may make him force his wife to leave her religion and follow his, or it may influence her to do that, and this is something that Islam cannot accept.
The higher status held by the husband may also cause the children of this woman to follow their father’s religion, which is a great error, if these offspring grow up and do not follow the final religion of Allaah.
This is the important reason which Allaah mentioned when He forbade Muslim women to marry non-Muslim men. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al‑Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikoon) invite you to the Fire, but Allaah invites (you) to Paradise and forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayaat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember”
[al-Baqarah 2:221]
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Finally, this ruling should not be strange for other religions, and it is not something odd that is applied by Islam alone. Why should some of those who attack our religion find it strange that Islam forbids our women to marry non-Muslim men, when they do not marry one another even though they are followers of one religion? A Catholic cannot marry a Protestant woman and if he does so he is punished by the church, and vice versa.
2006-07-09 10:32:41
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answered by mai4islam 3
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It might seem like the end of the world, but the fact is that there are many paths to happiness, and this girl can probably find a nice muslim boy as well and not have to overcome such crazy hurdles. It is hard to put it in perspective at the moment, but time will make these feelings subside if the girl cuts off contact and eventually she will find happiness elsewhere. The girl could stay Muslim and become involved with the guy, but that would be sinning from her perspective. Of course, people sin all the time so she could also pray for forgiveness. God is the most merciful and forgives those who repent and admit their weaknesses to Him. This is emphasized throughout the Koran and is part of her beliefs, even though people like to focus on the scary stuff ;-) So, in other words, the best thing is to trust in God and not be involved with this boy unless he is willing to become Muslim, if he is not willing to, trust that God will provide another option and is just testing you! The next best option is to talk to your family and the boy and be with him if he is good and pray to God that he will become Muslim and to forgive your sins (and make sure the kids are Muslim). Worst option is to just be with him and see what happens! For those of you who are painting this as "female oppression" remember that Muslim men can't marry Hindus either!
2016-03-27 06:22:13
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answered by Leigh 4
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The Muslims and Hindus in India have a long history of conflict! It even got to the point where many of them couldn't live in the same country together, which was the primary reason that Pakistan was formed!
2006-07-06 04:10:55
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answered by Windsor 2
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THIS JUST IN: Hindu boy falls in love with Muslim girl! World scheduled to end tomorrow.
2006-07-06 04:20:40
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answered by Antique Silver Buttons 5
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Love has nothing to do with religion.
But, relationships of mixed religion can be difficult. You don't believe all the same things. And I think that what most parents are afraid of is that one of the people in the relationship will not understand and will want to force the other to convert. Therefore changing their beliefs to be with the other person.
If they don't, then you have the dilema of what religion do you teach the children? One? both? How do you mix them?
2006-07-06 04:19:54
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answered by Anonymous
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I would probably cut the father into small pieces so dogs and cats could eat that sh..it easily. Only Islam came directly from hell and Satan. Islam should wipe out from this world as soon as possible. It is a horrible religion that only teaches hate,stonning to death,lashes,killing the infidels,lesbians and gays, amputation of limbs and burning alive people.
2006-07-06 04:13:29
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answered by sole_licker2000 1
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All the problems in the world are created by religion, it is not the people who are culprits, but they are victims of some people who wanted to be in power to do so they created religion. May god give them right guidence.
2006-07-06 04:24:35
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answered by sajid_icfai 3
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You can not be self centered all time. Every religion has their own distinctiveness.
Lion can not eat the grass and cow can not eat the meat. You born in the choice of your family so accept it.
Just for self satisfaction you can not ignore the feelings of your family members.
2006-07-06 04:18:19
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answered by Anonymous
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To me it doesn't sound like the boy and girl's religions were the problem, it sounds like the girl's close-minded and judgmental parents are the real problem.
2006-07-06 04:14:40
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answered by Candice H 4
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all the old religion thing is simply crap because this is what is stopping our country from moving forward socially and economically...........love knows no religion boundries
"live and let live"
2006-07-06 04:08:17
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answered by Anonymous
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