Girlfriend Problem?

Question

I messed up (being too clingy?) along the way of my relationship with my girlfriend. Shes starting to act weird and disconnected (from what was once love). Now Im trying to stop it and turn it around.

So during our last conversation on the phone I asked if she wanted to hang out later and she said maybe (still in her mood). Later on she texts me asking if she wanted to hang out and I texted back telling her Im kinda busy now. She texted me back saying 'That's cool....ttyl....'. I havn't talked to her since then but I plan on telling her we need to talk. I get the feeling she might want to break up, and in this case Im wondering what I could say to make her not want to break up (without bring needy).

She actually never told me I was being clingy

I guess Im jumping to conclusions because I've had girls leave before but I want to get it right this time!!

Answer 1

Try not giving her the chance to break up and in this time show her what she means to you without being needy....show her you have your own friends and hobbies to occupy your time...show you don't want her as your life, but as an intricate part of it...or if you have a talk with her just be open with her...tell her you have been thinking and you feel that you haven't been giving her enough space because people need space to grow in a relationship. Tell her you're going to make an effort because you want the relationship to last because you feel you two have that special connection. Open communication is usually the key to every relationship.

Answer 2

Did you really mess up or where you just being you ? Who says whats too clingy ? If you like to spend a lot of time with your gf, whats wrong with that ? If it drives her away then maybe she's not the right girl for you. Just a thought. At the end of the day all you can be is you.

Answer 3

well if u really like this gal n want 2 b with her try 2 b more romantic u no at least once try her ways impress her more n stuff give a gud reason 4 her 2 nt 2 break up with ya go n meet her with a beutiful boqquet u no wot im sayin impress her more

Answer 4

Going throught that right now. Just let her know how much you love or care or both for her. Send her a love card and some flowers and tell her how much you want to be with her. She is probably just feeling insecure about something you did. Make her feel like the only one for you. Trust me it will work.

Answer 5

flirting is something else and love is different to y u getting confuse
when u love her i think u should do wht ever to have her
i would beg for the one i love
i no u dont want to hUrt ur manly ego
just once bro u have to talk to her
she may be a little confuse clear her confusion
wht u got to lose

Answer 6

Just give her a little space and spend some time alone and she'll realize how much you mean to her.

Answer 7

the night u think she will break up with u have sex and say i will brb and buy candles and chocolets and a daniel bedingfield cd and play if yur not the one for me its the best

Answer 8

i love you so much and if you want to dump me then go a head but know this if you do you leave me with a brokeing head i told that to my gf that was going to break up with me and she stayed with me

Answer 9

u cant jump to conclusions when u dont know what is going on in her mind but i suggest u ask her wassup.

Answer 10

theres no way to change how someone feels..im sorry but its true...if she really loves you then every thing willl be just fine..if not youll find someone who does!