2006-07-06 03:50:18 · 17 answers · asked by GirlVirgo♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because with THEM you are RELAXED, YOURSELF, and that is the sort of company folks ENJOY! ;)
A lot of guys, though, prefer a gal who's hard-to-get, so sometimes they respond to gals by acting that way THEMSELVES, assuming the gal would think the same way and find him more ATTRACTIVE that way.
Perhaps we all could advance by determining which type the person of interest IS, and if they ARE the sort that ENJOYS the challenge of GOING AFTER ones who are hard-to-get, we can then cut them (and OURSELVES) some SLACK when they act that way around US!
If they ARE that sort, then that's their way of TRYING to DRAW our ATTENTION, so I suppose we should feel honored! ;)
2006-07-06 03:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well could be that you have so much attention from the others that it is to much of a competition for you.
Some guys, like me, dont chase girls. The girls have to come to me.
It is difficult to be bold and say things to people that may reject you, but the feeling is so gooooood when it goes the way you want. Either way the issue is resolved.
Just say something cute. smile and maintain eye-contact.
Remember "boys" dont know what is going on, but we are impressed with the girl that knows what she wants.
2006-07-06 11:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by freeway823 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just one of the ironies of life. However, if the guy you like won't pay attention to you and you want him, why can't you decide to "turn" his attention towards you. It's very simple to do - engage him in a conversation, and perhaps tell him about your feelings for him. You're a gurl, gurls have this natural way of being crafty in doing that sort of thing. Hope I'm right. Cheers!
2006-07-06 10:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is you have to let the one that you are really into, think that you are not interested anymore. I did that in high school, I actually let a guy that I crushed on for 6years slip away , because I was hooking him up with everyone else. He never let on that he liked me and I never let him know I liked him. So it is okay to let him know just don't seem disparate
2006-07-06 11:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by lashenica j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time its because they want to see how much interested you are in them. The joy of seeing you try, if they give in then that thrill of seeing you go after them is gone.
Then its becuase they are not into you or your attention is too subtle they don't notice.
2006-07-06 10:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're gay and they want a challenge.........ugh men....when u act like ur into them.....they think that it would be easy and they could just ask u out and i think they want more to the process....but.....when ur not interested at all.....they see a challenge and they jump on it....especially if ur attractive and have a good personality..(do guys even care about good personalities though???) lol
Lissa
2006-07-06 10:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by chuckthehope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy you like probably doesn't find you attractive, but the boys that you don't like, like you.
2006-07-06 11:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart is very decietful and has caused many to fall due to a lack of sound values towards goals....
2006-07-06 10:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by BILL P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes as pretty as u may be every one has a crush on you
but sometimes the guy u like could be afraid that u might say no if he asks u aot so try asking him out
2006-07-06 10:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by leopardfever8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in u know ur doin the same thing to the guy u like that they are doing to u. u like him and he shows no atention to u and they like u but u show no atention to them. see how theres a pattern there?
2006-07-06 10:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by mountianbiker_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋