I need some real advice?

Question

I am a 26 year old male who just broke up with my girlfriend, i told one of my homeboys about it we had a few drinks and he started to feel on my legs and kiss my neck and then we became naked and he penetrated me, he said he had wanted me for along time I never had thought about being gay but damn that pennis felt so good in me, i am very depressed about it but now I feel in love what should I do

Answer 1

You could be bi. You can't help who you fall in love with. As long as you are happy, that is all that matters in life.

Answer 2

Stop and think about what you did in a serious light, don't just change yourself for one indiscretion. We all do things in a moment of passion that may not be best for us. Have you had feelings like this before? Was this just a rebound( which can be man or a woman) are you confused because you were hurt by a woman. If you have been trying to repress feelings of sexual feelings toward men by dating women that may be one thing, but if you haven't I would think deep within yourself and pray very hard about your decision. I think that you should seek some counseling, be it a pastor or a local counselor, this is not a choice you take lightly, it will change your entire life. If you have any faith at all, you should think that God said go therefore and multiply and if you are with a man then you cannot do that. Also not everyone will be supportive in your choices. You will have to tell your family and friends eventually. Just seriously think about what your doing before you do it. What ever final decision you make will be the right one if you seriously give it some thought and meditation.

Answer 3

OK, so it felt good, what's the big deal. Anything that feels good we will want to do more of it. Sounds like "in love" to you is just a sexual thing.
If I were you, I would sit back and think about your life and make some real choices about how you really want it to go. It is easy to just screw around. Don't let yourself be manipulated into doing something that might tend to degrade you.

Answer 4

I'm entirely familiar with bisexuality, though my views are slanted somewhat. Guys are a 'fvck and forget' whereas ladies are relationship capable. But, do what feel right for you, just be on your guard a little, and don't hold your breath if the overlooked fickleness of male emotions gets the better of you. My two cents, thank you for your time.

Answer 5

Go with the flow and enjoy it. Stop worrying and analizing things let him know how you feel and see where you go from there. People can fall in love and lust with same and opposite sex no shame it's just life. Your only here once make the most of it

Answer 6

ticky yes but if you are feeling feelings that you have never had before you may want to consider it a possibility end the end you have to do what makes you happy and what makes you well you be int he moment and the rest will follow

Answer 7

man, damm you just said it
you are a gay man a GAY MAN we do not like to her about details about him being in you. next time say it went to far or we did it. those details well get you some hate mail.
do what ever you want, but damm that was gross.

Answer 8

u cnt become gay cz u had sex with ure friend BY MISTAKE! I think u r confuse cz u hav just broke up with ure girlfriend.. just relax and take ure time 2 think..

Answer 9

continue seeing him if he makes you happy. just don't ell your ex for awhile because that could be very hurtful. good luck with your new relationship and i hope that everything works out for you both. was it better with a guiy or the girl. good luck buddy

Answer 10

Go for it I guess.If your in love nothing matters right?But u did have a gf i think your friend had a big influence on u.AVOID HIM!!!