I am falling in love with a guy . But I am in different place from him. We have been keeping in touch on MSN or Yahoo for nearly a year and we know we love each other. And we are sometimes see each other on cam. Yes, we did argue cuz trust problem. But after several agree. We found that we still love each other. Even during the argue , we said bad words of each other. But we finally are still keeping loving each other .. we still keeping.
I have a problem now about meeting.......
He needs to apply for a visa but he do not have enough money and he is now living in a poor country.
But I really love him.... before he did apply for visa but fail and he cried on cam and i was sad too.
What do u guy feel about my case?
2006-07-06 03:02:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, he's not applying a visa to my coutry.So i think he's not cheating me for citizenship to my country.
If we meet, i will fly to the europe and he has to do this also.
2006-07-06 03:16:21 · update #1
Actually, my primary and his primary is not english but we can still talk without difficulties.
2006-07-06 03:18:28 · update #2
That sounds like the scam of the century. He may only want to come here to get a Visa. I dont see how you can fall in love with someone like that. What was the trust issue? Is he flirting with other people online and you dont like that? I wouldnt touch that with a 10 foot pole. You can do better.
2006-07-06 03:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by hatingmsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a powerful tool, that can reach hearts thousands of miles away. I think that given the circumstances, friends maybe your only option. The money issue is one that I feel he should try to resolve. I understand that he is in a poor country and all, but you need better. You need someone who can take care of himself and you. The man seems sweet and all, but you must ask yourself honestly can he support the two of you or vice versa because that may be what will happen. He is not American which means he has to learn our language, become gainfully employed, all these things after getting the Visa( the one he can't afford). There are more men out there, you may have to continue your search.
2006-07-06 03:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by lashenica j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ya that really sucks, my step dad went through the same thing, when he went to brazil he fell in love with this girl there and asked her to marry him and come back to the us but she didnt have enough money for the visa and it took 2 years but it finally worked out, so what im saying is if u take the time and really love the guy then it will work out.
2006-07-06 03:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may be just looking for citizenship, but that's just my opinion. If he isnt, I wish you the best of luck, but I wouldnt send any money for a visa. People can be a totally different person once you meet them. How old are you I must ask?
2006-07-06 03:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just using you. Online dating can be a good thing, but don't get too serious before you have even really met the guy, face to face. There is no great communication than a face to face conversation. Love is a strong word, so use it wisely.
2006-07-06 03:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by joyfulnoise83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get therapy. What is wrong with you? Do you have huge warts on your face or something? Find out where you are going wrong by paying money for a therapist to give you direction. Here's a suggestion- Go to a bar and get somebody drunk. At least you will have a REAL friend for one night. Damn.
2006-07-06 03:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on net...its better coz than its not just the looks..its thinking of that person that matters..
i hope its love and if it is...keep it..i have same feeling for years..and believe me its true.i pray u two meet soon..but remember the final step is in real life..meet him...even if it takes years and then do ur final decision.no hurry,no worry..these things take time!till then have good time.
2006-07-06 03:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by heaven girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not the most conventional way to meet guys...but ive also tried it...and its not that bad...if u really like him make an effort to meet him, maybe u could help him with that invitation letter so he could get his visa more easily
2006-07-06 03:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by teja_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself find that all the guys on here like putting on fronts. i mean its ok to chat on here but as far as dating goes i WOULDNT do it. i feel that people on here hide things and make up things just as well. theres always something more to people on here. my best adivce go out in your neighborhood and meet someone that way
2006-07-06 03:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by uwishuwere2good4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and face the real world.
2006-07-06 03:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋