You should just break-up because it's hard to break up, but even harder to get caught cheating expecially if the person your cheating with doesn't know your with someone else.
That's what I don't get.
2006-07-06 03:01:21 · 5 answers · asked by Baller 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People cheat for many different reasons. When I cheated I was with BABIES DADDY (BD) and I was old fashioned and wanted it to work. The OTHER guy was a dear friend that I'd known for about 10 years prior to the BD. OTHER was always there to make me feel better when BD and I fought and it was often. BD and I didn't want the same things in life and we were growing apart. He was a womanizer, he became an alcoholic, which means he became abusive and he half worked (he payed his share of bills though), and ultimately violent, violence is where I draw the line. But through all of that OTHER was simply loving me and wanted me to leave, but he never asked me to, because he didn't think I would. I would have. My not leaving BD sooner, made it hard to OTHER to keep trying; however, BD is long gone, and OTHER and I are still GREAT friends. Though we haven't been intimate in over 20 years, the chemistry is still there, but so is his fear of loving me.
Although, just leaving seems like a simple thing to do, given every sitution, some thought must go into what your next steps are. A lot of times the convenience is a big factor. Meaning he was paying half the bills and I had to wait until I was stable enough to leave him. Which is why a lot of people don't just leave the person.
2006-07-06 03:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they cheat because they are not happy with what they have,, or they are lookin for an easy way out of a bad relationship,, they could have done it,, just because it happned, & they dont know how to tell you,,, could alos be lookin for a little extra on the side, because they are players.
2006-07-06 10:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by ilovethewayyoudothat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people cheat because they are insecure. They need constant validation that they are valuable, attractive or wanted.
2006-07-06 10:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will cheat on my boyfriend when i dont feel wanted and loved by him.
2006-07-06 10:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is all about hash marks on my bed post. U wanna be next??
2006-07-06 10:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋