I messed up (being too clingy?) along the way of my relationship with my girlfriend. Shes starting to act weird and disconnected (from what was once love). Now Im trying to stop it and turn it around.
So during our last conversation on the phone I asked if she wanted to hang out later and she said maybe (still in her mood). Later on she texts me asking if she wanted to hang out and I texted back telling her Im kinda busy now. She texted me back saying 'That's cool....ttyl....'. I havn't talked to her since then but I plan on telling her we need to talk. I get the feeling she might want to break up, and in this case Im wondering what I could say to make her not want to break up (without bring needy).
2006-07-06 02:41:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a tough one. If your strategy of backing off is working, & she may be about to relax, you could blow it by saying anything. Best to just occasionally maintain contact for a little while, & give her a chance to miss you, only asking her out every so often. However, you may have already pushed her far enough away that you've damamged things beyond repair. Perhaps you should consider your options open at this point. I'm not saying cheat by any means. However, there's no rule saying you have to date one person exclusively. Let her know you feel like you put too much pressure on her, & that you might like to try dating other people for a while to give her some space. Be prepared to let her date others, as well. If she disagrees, then you still have a chance to repair things, & let her know you are willing to work on things if she is still committed to you. Best of luck.
2006-07-06 02:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Admit to it and ask her if she wants to get out more often - maybe you should try and meet new friends...
Maybe just give her a little space (but do something different for a change)
2006-07-06 09:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Chellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell her how you feel from within not matter if it does sounds needy.
2006-07-06 09:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that u feel disconnected from her........tell her that u want that girl back the one that u fell in luv with......dont 4get to tell her how much u love her n how much she means to u.....gud luck
2006-07-06 09:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by gtzwildchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋