Before I get married with my girlfriend, I want to spend my last time together with my little sister... my only blood realtive left after my parent passed away. It would be a date or kind of that.
I love here, truly love her and before I leave her once and for all for my soulmate, I want to make a sweet memory for just the two of us... as a brother toward to his lovely sister.
What do you all suggest then? By the way, I'm 20, she's 19, and we're very closed each other (nothing's kinky here... we're just closer than ordinary brother and sister, that's all!). I always watch her back, and she watches mine...
2006-07-06 02:29:22 · 24 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Bring her some flowers with a note telling her how glad you are that she is your sister and how much she means to you.
Take her out for a nice dinner and maybe even a movie//
Is there anything that she loves to do? Take her waterskiing. shopping, movie, bowling. Museum, to the lake, the ocean.
Bring with a camera and ask people to take pictures of you two.
Then for christmas you can give her the pictures in a photo book.
You should like a great guy and your wife to be must be very
special too. I am glad you and your sister have a close relationship. No matter what happens in the future you will have each other.
My sister is my rock and my hero.
2006-07-18 02:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
News flash, since your parents are deceased you become the equivalent to her father.
That said, there is and old saying that goes " A son is a son till he takes a wife, but a daughter is your daughter the rest of her life!"
That means she will always need you for moral support and friendship. Your marriage does not break the ties between the two of you.
I hope your bride is not expecting you to suddenly exclude your sister from your marriage relationship. I pray that your bride's attitude is that she is gaining an ally and friend, not competition. If your bride is jealous of the time you spend with your sister, that is a major red flag the relationship is flawed.
Your sister is part of you and because your parents are gone you still need each other more than ever, that will never change. Please do not give up your sister for a selfish woman.
Now to your original question. Wine and dine her at a nice restaurant. dress up really nice tux or nice suit, poss limo if you can afford. sort of like a prom date just to celebrate your life together so far, then reassure her that she is gaining a sister not loosing a brother. Keep this just for the two of you to celebrate the beginning your new journey into marriage.
2006-07-08 03:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by lucybuffington@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a great relationship and should realkly keep in touch always. You can still be close. Be a family on Holidays, etc. How about spending the day together doing something cool? Have a picnic in the park, go to the zoo, then out to a really nice dinner. Someplace she'd never get to go. Think. Anything will be wonderful.
2006-07-06 02:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you get married dont forget about her. Keep in touch , talk to her and once in a while meet her in person. She will definately like that. You both are the only blood relative i guess you both need each other at any age and at any time of life. Just give her an assurance that you will always be there for her.
All the best for the wedding.
2006-07-06 02:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A movie, a quiet dinner.
Time to talk. Maybe a drive somewhere. Maybe even a picnic.
Got a favorite childhood place? Why not spend some time there.
I do think you need to be alone together, not spending the time with a bunch of people.
And stay close throughout your life. Make sure your girlfriend/fiancee understands your closeness to your sis and accepts it. You don't want a wife who's jealous of your family.
2006-07-18 15:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact you qualify this question with "nothing kinky" is making my skin itch. She's your sister buy her a hotdog, take her to the mall and let her spray you with sample perfumes. For god sake it's not the end of the world, you are getting married, not moving to the North Pole. I think it's really simple unless you want to complicate it with "just closer than ordinary brother and sister". Freak alert.
2006-07-06 02:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a nice guy you are, your wife to be is a lucky girl.
whatever you do with her will be memorable but make sure that you two have time to talk where you can share your feelings about her and let her know that although you are getting married, she will always be an important part of your life.
congratulations on your upcoming marriage and BRAVO for being such a good brother.
2006-07-18 04:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nice relationship :) I hope my children grow up as close as the two of you.
I'm sure anything you guys do together would be a great memory! How about a hot air balloon ride? Those are always a gas!! If you live close to the ocean, how about para-sailing? Clam chowder in San Francisco? Anyway, whatever you do I hope it is fun.
Happy marriage to you!
mb
2006-07-06 02:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you close like Anglina Jolie and her Brother? Do you Kiss? Are you Like very very very close and wrestle on the ground in front of your fiancee? and now you want to take your sis out on a romantic date before you get married ? hmmmmmmm. Man this relationship sounds kinky. Do you also smell your sisters panties when shes not around? Freeeeaaak!
2006-07-09 21:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason this question makes me very uncomfortable. I wonder if I'm alone in that? Nothing like a nice romantic evening with a close blood relative.
2006-07-06 02:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋