25 and older please...my ex said he acted rashly when he decided to break up with me?

Question

i dont want to play myself by telling him he can come back and his pride wont allow him to say he wants to come back...but the truth is i am so heartbroken. im having a hard time getting past this. what to do?

Answer 1

I'm 32 (just so you know I qualify).

The true test of this isn't your heartbreak, it's his. You know him better than any of us would. You have to judge his mood, emotion, sincerity and decide if you believe him or not. If you truly believe him, and decide to take him back, still do so with a bit of a guard at first to keep yourself safe. If you opt to not take him back, then let him go and don't look back. What your gut tells you to do is often correct, follow it.

Answer 2

Tell him that you want to go on record that he broke your heart. Than let nature take it's course. If he really loves you still his heart will lead him back to you. Screw the pride. If that's what is stopping him than I suggest you move on because it wont be the last time he does it.

Answer 3

ok, i know im not 25, but dont take him back huni, he cant love you if he finished you, and the only reason he wants to get back with you is cause he cant get anything else or hes finished playing around... all you need (pardon the expression) is a transsition shag... the guy who is inbetween bfs... they get you over your ex no trouble... i know that may seem like a slutty way to do it, but it works... and once youve got a fuckbuddy, you can use him again and again... x

Answer 4

First you need to tell him how he made you feel. Then wait to see if he'll own up to HIS feelings. If he can't meet you halfway then what kind of relationship will you have with him?

Don't make it easy or reward someone for hurting you. He screwed up and if he can't honestly make amends and talk about his mistake then he's DYSFUNCTIONAL...