my boy friend is 20 and i love him i would die for him,but i have feelings for a nother boy and i don't know what to do???? please help me xx
2006-07-06 01:41:15 · 15 answers · asked by little dove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love enough to die is strong love, the feelings you say you have for another person need to be analyzed a little deeper. If you haven't really had the chance to know this person how do you know you have "feelings" and not just curiousity or attraction. Being attracted to another person is common but being in love enough to die for someone is a once in a lifetime treasure. If your feelings are not as deep and you are more friends than in love then maybe you should ask if you could be "best friends" fora while, but the minute you see him with someone else, you will regret that decision. Analyze yourself and find out what you are afraid of...I think that is what is causing you to want to go a different direction.
2006-07-06 01:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by tynett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should beat yourself up to much about this, many people influence our lives and i'm sure many people would agree that despite being in loving relationships they have had feelings for another. The main thing is that u remain true to yourself, if u know u love the guy your with and your sure he's the one for u then in time u will probably realise that the feelings your having might just be ones of friendship. maybe spend some time on your own so u can really see how u feel without hurting anyone or confusing yourself more! good luck x
2006-07-06 01:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by twiglet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think the feeling u have for the other guy is LUST, u can't love both guys at the same time. one will always be stronger than the other. no one knows whats going on in ur heart, only u can make the desicion of who u wanna be with. but i think from what ur saying stay with ur bf. u know if u love someone if ur willing to do anything for them.
2006-07-06 01:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take some time without the boyfriend to figure out what you feel. You may "love" him, but it doesn't sound like you are "in love" with him and there is a difference.
Let your bf know that you need some time to yourself and figure out what to do next.
2006-07-06 01:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 23:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you do love your boyfriend but you are not in love with him.
You want someone else but dont want to hurt your boyfriend, you really need to decide what you want before you end up hurting yourself and your boyfriend.
2006-07-06 01:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend on the "feelings" you have for the other person-if it's just infactuation then it's just "lust" and pretty normal for people in LTR's...you get away from the fire and you won't get burned...
You're young to be in a LTR so decide if you want to "sow" some wild oats now or if your BF is the one 4ever...then take action.
2006-07-06 01:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you love the most?
You have a choice to make.
2006-07-06 01:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by PaulJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey ur confused i dont think u should have a bf til uknow who u love the most
2006-07-06 03:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love the first one as much as you think, you wouldnt even consider another man if you did, i think you're still young and need to play the field. i dont think its how you feel baout THEM, i think you're basing it on how they feel about YOU.
if you love someone else then leave him, you cant have both
2006-07-06 01:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋