my boyfriend likes talking to me over phone through out the night and if i tell him that i want to sleep around 2a.m {when we start talking around 11.30p.m and i have to wake up at 7 in the morning......isnt 2.5hrs at a stretch enough for someone}......he says its just too early..........and when i insists too much he says ok fine if u want to sleep...u can but gets really upset.......sometimes i get so irritated i feel like kicking him out of my life........he himself says 4hrs sleep is enough for him...so it should be enough for you also.......and while we are talking most of the time we are quite.........he says it make me feel good that atleast we are connected in some manner...how should i convince him 2hrs are enough......and its a 2 month old relationship and i havent slept properly since then depite the fact that i love to sleep.....
2006-07-06 00:48:27 · 9 answers · asked by sweets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do not answer him when U R not ready for a long chat.
2006-07-06 00:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a rule, tell him he can call you twice a week and "speak" for one hour, that is it.
I think you both need a bit of growing up to do, firstly why should he want to talk for so long, what about his phone bill and secondly why don't you have the guts to stand up to him and lay down some ground rules.
Don't allow him to brow beat you like this, stand up for yourself and you are allowed to sleep you know, he is selfish, that all I can say.
2006-07-06 01:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by tracy v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a whiney little jacka$$. What a spoiled brat!
And YOU to be on top of your game during the day; you even need more than 4 hours sleep. 2 Hours sleep is out of the question.
This sounds lke a really stupid and wayyyy to dramatic relationship. Dump his whiney butt.
2006-07-06 00:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember them days years ago, just tell him flat out. You will talk to him from say 10 til 12 then you are hanging up, you need your sleep, he will be fine with it, if he doesn't than hang up on him, unplug the phone. he will call you back the next day. just tell him you told him up front, and follow through with it, You need your sleep
2006-07-06 00:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's being unreasonable, the fact that four hour sleep is enough for him doesnt mean its enough for u, i guess u should have a serious talk him, good luck.
2006-07-06 00:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy needs help! He seems the needy type. Dump him now!
2006-07-06 01:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by scalegoddess2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah way too much phone time....You need to be firm.
2006-07-06 00:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by djmantx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Lay the rules to him.....
2006-07-06 00:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want 2 kik him out ur life...the GO AHEAD!!!
2006-07-06 00:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋