I told this guy that I liked him but he told me had a girlfriend , I was quite upset because he had been flirting with me and it seems like he just wanted some fun flirting, but now that I try and ignore him , it seem he resents it , do you think he feels he is missing out, should I talk to him?
2006-07-06 00:40:57 · 32 answers · asked by jenna j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes talk to him, and only tell him that flirting will only end up in disaster, because if his girlfriend found out that he was flirting with you, not only will he cop it, but you will too, guys shouls only stcik with the one girl, as I do beileve in 2 timing, so yeah you should deff talk to him, and tell him what's what!
2006-07-06 00:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by deano2806 3 · 11⤊ 2⤋
Look girl, dont be stupid. the fact that he told you he has a girlfriend and you feel he's just flirting with you is enough to understand that he is just using you. If he loves you and want to have a serious relationship with you first is he should free himself from the other girl and then start a relatioship with you but not on a flirting kind of way.
2006-07-06 00:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people don't know that they are flirting, then again if you said he seems upset that you ignore him, he probably misses talking to you as a friend. He realized that he really likes you but he wanted you to know first off he cannot get serious with you. Maybe he just wanted a fling with no strings
2006-07-06 00:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by anadah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girlfriend is not a wife! They come and they go. Yes, you should talk to him if you like him and he likes you. The worst that can happen is that you will become friends. Who knows what will happen in the future with his girlfriend. He told you because he wanted to be honest and upfront with you, but that is no reason to stop talking to him. Just be sure that the talking doesn't lead to more as long as he is seeing someone else.
2006-07-06 00:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should talk to him-you may be missing out on a great friendship if you don't!! You may have misunderstood his "flirting" as being something that it actually wasn't! Ignoring him won't accomplish anything. You will have many boyfriends during your life-good friends are far and few in between!!!
2006-07-06 00:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by SidTheKid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, let the looser sweat, all he wanted was his ego to be stroked along with maybe a few other things.. He is a cd only out for himself. If things progressed with you they would be only for his gradification and then he would move on. Beleive me, I am aguy, I know how we act and think. Hopefully I have matured and evolved out of this type of behavior. He said he had a g/f. He needs to know that he can still get other girls. Trust me this guy is no good.. Good Luck, you deserve better, do not fall prey to this a-hole.
2006-07-06 00:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way he is a player and wants to feel attention from females to make him feel like he's really is hot. Feel sorry for his girlfriend to put up with such a flirt.
2006-07-06 00:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. dont' talk to him. he's wanting to pull you into a game he's playing. don't go for it. your worth more then that. i would believe him when he says he has a girlfriend. the minute she is around he will pretend he doesn't know you then when she's gone he will play again. you dont' need that treatment. he resents it cause he's not getting his way. he wanted you to be ok with it and still be flirty with him and back off when his g/f is around. thats what it sounds like to me. don't fall into that behaviour with men. thats not the type of person you want to attract.
2006-07-06 00:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not talk with him. You will end up having some of his type of fun if you create a bond with this guy.
Move on and meet other guys.
2006-07-06 00:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, NO and NOOOOOOOO. If he is flirting with you while he has a girlfriend, he will flirt with others when you are his girlfriend. Remember this: "When a man marries his mistress, he creates a vacancy in the position."
2006-07-06 00:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wanted to be a good friend and nothing more. He is probably upset that you can't still be friends. He was honest with you and you should give him credit for that. There is nothing wrong with "friends" between opposite sex.
2006-07-06 00:43:50 · answer #11 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋