I have this problem of paniking when I meet or approach a girl.I panic in such a way that I shake.
2006-07-06 00:19:54 · 14 answers · asked by tshepo j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you lack confidence. Now, ask yourself, "Why do you lack confidence? :P
2006-07-06 00:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by athame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think that she is only a girl n nothing more than that! If u approach her then either she will accept it or just reject it if she is pretty sensible. Or else at max she may just slap u, that's it. But is that gonna stop being with what u r????? Then simply go 4 it n dont panic.
2006-07-06 00:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pichi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its caused by several things really.
Firstly its perfectly fine to be nervous and sometimes oyr nerves cause us to act involuntarily (in your case this would result in shaking)
Also you might find that you have had a bad experience in the past that might trigger these episodes and you need to resolve the conflict.
Finally you might need to evaluate your situation and see if too much stress or a nervous disorder is affecting you.
2006-07-06 00:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by The Dark One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably panic from fear of rejection, the only way to overcome this is to get more practice. As you spend more time interacting with girls, it will be come less daunting and easier to talk to them. The first steps will be hard, but it will be worth it in the end.
2006-07-06 00:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by Pickles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
paniking is a natural thing to do you need to before you get into any situation where there could be girls you need to take a few deep breaths and realize everything is going to be ok girls are not that bad trust me
2006-07-06 00:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by skits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax macha .... Just keep this in ur mind There is nothing that u can loose which u can never gain and then approach the girl!
2006-07-06 00:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Most guys are shy and badhful when they see a cute girl and want to tallk to them. Eventually when you summon up the courage, you can ask her if she wants to hang out sometime
2006-07-06 00:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always make sure you are on the dancefloor. Then you can incorporate the shaking into your dance.
Failing that, go gay.
2006-07-06 00:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Scotty Wrotem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax .....I dont mean 2 be rude but they are gonna think ur a freak..So just relax ...Cool downnn...(^_^)
2006-07-06 00:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by JennyfferBCN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax yourself.....take a deep breath.
2006-07-06 00:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by PunkGreen1829 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋