well lets see basically im a pretty quiet type person you know a dont speak to unless someone wants to talk or I know someone really well. But its just that I've noticed that females always tend to take a second glance as if there intrested but its this da%n lack of socalizing that ruins it for me. Its not the fact that im not around females often im around them everyday. Probably only type of relationship I could probably have is as a good friend. I need advice on how to break out of this shell cuz its killin me.
2006-07-04 22:25:47 · 8 answers · asked by Jonatan C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just don't afraid to be yourself. try not to care what anyone thinks of you or what you say. If you're talking to a girl keep the conversation flowing you can ask simple questions like "what have you been up to lately?". don't be afraid to keep a conversation going. if the conversation is dying down a bit just ask her something else to show that you're interested in her. Also, try to show that you have a sense of humor. Girls love to laugh and it makes them want to keep talking to you. i hope i helped. if you have any questions just email me i can help you out from a girl's point of view.
2006-07-04 22:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by cstr81190 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean. if i like a guy.. or am interested, but he is the shy quiet type.. i move on. how to break out of your shell?? you could take some classes... but thats always awkward. so, maybe you should just practise socializing at home. (talk to yourself, a pet, or a teddybear.. hahah. i know it sounds weird, but its worth the try!) or maybe get a job that requires lots of talking, or put yourself into plenty of situations where there is no option to be quiet, or shy. what helps me (even though im not a very shy or quiet person) is usually to treat everyone like they are a friend.talk or joke with them like they are someone you know, someone your close with. i wasnt always an open person.. so that really helped. im trying to think of other ways you can become more social... but thats all i can think of at the moment.
i guess theres one more peice of advice i can give you. when you see a girl, but get quiet and shy.. just think... do you really wanna fuuck this one up too?? this could be another great oppurtunity wasted. hhaha. srry i wasnt much help.
good luck =)
2006-07-05 05:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anna.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u should try to use da internet dating service and then after u got good wit dat try to see if some of dat experience could be useful on da outside
2006-07-05 05:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time get to know the person before you judge
2006-07-05 05:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read How to win freinds and influence people.
It helped this introvert dramatically.
2006-07-05 05:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by iggwad ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know your age, but give it time. hold your held tall..when the time is right, you and her will connet without a problem... be patient... good luck
2006-07-05 05:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
atend few communication classes
2006-07-05 05:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself it all that matters.
2006-07-05 05:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by travellinghotty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋