People say things like blondes usually symbolize "stupidity" or "being easy" and brunettes "intelligence" and "being loyal" and all of that other crap, but I say "Who cares?" Some blondes are smart and friendly, some brunettes are s****... why generalize in such a stupid way? Sure, blondes sometimes seem to be preferred, but isn't obvious that it's because it happens to be the more rare hair color (or at least used to until everyone started to use hair dye) ? It's just like with blue eyes! Or even gold... it's more rare, so people go crazy. So, it's actually very ridiculous to ask about hair color and stuff... please stop! There's absolutely no point. There can be an unconscious preferrance for a certain color, but there's no need to ask! And last, to those blondes who always say they have more fun (is it true fun or just cheap fun? cheap fun doesn't count), quit saying that 'cause I'm chocolate everywhere and I LOVE it!!
2006-07-04 22:21:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Great point. I'm a natural blond with blue eyes and big busted so I have had problems all my life with peoples preconceived notions on how I am suppose to be. What makes me mad is when people find out how smart I really am, they are surprised. Sometimes it's hard to have fun when men notice you for only your outside attributes and worse if they ask you out because blondes are known to be a certain way. I've had a few guys just drop me off when I found them surprised they weren't getting a thing out of me. It is so shallow to judge a person by the color of any feature! Oh, you are so blessed to be "chocolate"! Why do you suppose us white girls want to be dark? We're jealous!!! I do love myself the way I am but by some weird reason I had to choose between being a white man or a beautiful chocolate lady, (heck, think I'd be a chocolate guy too) I would be chocolate all the way!!!! Black skin is such beautiful skin and it doesn't age as fast either!
2006-07-04 23:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by SonoranAngel 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good for you!!
I feel the same way. I'm blonde and I hate being stereotyped, and as with all stereotypes people tend to see them everywhere. If I did something really intelligent people would forget it but if I did something really stupid people would automatically think "stupid blonde!". It's sad really.
2006-07-05 05:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by anouska1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely agree. I've personally "liked" girls of just about every ethnicity. I think it's stupid to generalize, I've met highly intelligent people of all different hair colors, eye colors and ethnicity. It's just stupid to categorize people.
2006-07-05 05:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Geo man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with you 100% but i think that the reason girls ask what color guys think is sexiest is so that they can dye which i think is sooo superficial. same with guys. and i agree with you on the shirsts that say "blondes have more fun" its like they think that they are better than everyone else just because they have blond hair!
2006-07-05 06:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by PEzzCandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's get's organized and ask Jessie J. and Al Sharpton to led the rally against blonde and blue eye people! {me included}
2006-07-05 05:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by lelekid4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blondes do have more fun. But they also have more VD. As long as the drapes match the carpet im happy.
2006-07-05 05:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by MetalTeK 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey are yu a black?...i fink u shud appreciate yur skin color all da way...and well itz strange u came up with this hair colour topic. forget it....noone tokz about it!
2006-07-05 05:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morons project sterotypical thinking that often has its origins in advertising and/or bad comedy TV
2006-07-05 05:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Vermin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are gold eye color? o.O wow thats cool...and you really shouldnt take it taht seriously, the people who ask those questions are probably blondes :D
2006-07-05 05:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm chocolate everywhere too!!!!! And my hair is wonderful
2006-07-05 05:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋