2006-07-04 22:08:17 · 24 answers · asked by yellow&black 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Looks versus Brains,
My buddies and I all agree that as a man, we have to be intially attracted to the person in order to want to get to know them. Although that doesn't mean that she has to be a "smoking hot" swim suit model (the majority of these girls have tons of problems by the way) - she just has to be outgoing, fun and interesting.
Obviously, women with high attraction measures and keep themselves in shape are going to get guys looking and wanting them. But most men (not young boys mind you), want a woman who is not only going to keep them in check but will also make them feel good about their life and their accomplisments. A healthy sex-life is probably the most important aspect in the beginning of the relationship and then understanding and being a partner will also come into play.
Most likely, a women who will take the time to understand her man will have a much more successful relationship than a woman who is obessed with her looks... This also goes both ways. But it all down plays to, what do YOU want and not what do guys want in general. When you figure that out, the hard part is over...
Regards,
A.R. Pouretezadi
P.S. I put in some reading sources for you. They have some good info... =)
2006-07-04 22:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by A R Pouretezadi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obvi...both. But what do u think. today 80% of guys care about looks, they don't even wait to see wether the girl has brains or not and move on and even if they do that doesn't stop them does it.
2006-07-04 22:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by pineapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a girl I can trust and love with all my heart and who loves me back
as for looks, obviously thats great..there has too be some attraction
brains, a smart girl is sexy..but some girls who are smart..are kinda scary and think they are tough because of it...like that damn condelezza rice chick..she scares me..but you know she super smart.
I would prefer trust over both but out of the two ehh..looks I guess..I could be with someone who was kinda dumb..but I couldnt be with someone who was hideous
2006-07-04 22:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me? Brains.
2006-07-04 22:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer girl with good knlowedge
2006-07-04 22:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by Arun P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls with look are for dating.girls with brains for marrying.the ideal combination of course is both!
2006-07-04 23:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by melita s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nice to have a pretty and clever girl, but looks ain't everything. Id rather have a intellectual girl than an air head, they just annoy me.
2006-07-04 22:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOKS I LEARN THAT THE HARD WAY AND IT STILL HURTS BUT IT'S TRUE LOOKS COUNT SO THEY CAN HAVE THEIR TROPHY BUT THEY MIGHT HAVE BRAINS ON THE SIDE MOST OF THE TIME BRAINS IS THE OTHER WOMEN SO THEY CAN GET HELP WHEN THEY NEED IT SO THEY CAN SCEAM AND CON AND GET OUT OF TROUBLE..
2006-07-04 22:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Angie (Lady V) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are always a great combination. I would probably look into the person's heart more so though.
2006-07-04 22:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i like both. Looks is important to an extent, but brains is also important to me...
2006-07-04 22:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Hyphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋