2006-07-04 21:58:05 · 7 answers · asked by sweetest_ecstasy1 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Self destruction and/or Apathy as methods of dealing with an abnormally terrible childhood are similar to using hamsters as a team to pull a carriage. If you have had an abnormally terrible childhood see a person who specializes in helping to discuss these problems, it can do a world of good and it will make you more comfortable with talking about what happened and what you can do about it.
2006-07-04 22:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by wellmonty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not into therapy, which seems to be the case, try talking it out with someone you trust; not all at once but over a time without forgetting progress made and the victories of new thoughts on old subjects.
Finally when all old thoughts have been replaced by the well rounded considerations in hindsight of an adult and an adult's contemporaries, you'll realize that the demons of old have fallen fast asleep never to again scream or be the cause of screams.
2006-07-04 23:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have read the 3 books by Dave Pelzer (A Child Called It, The Lost Boy, A Man Named Dave) then you will see that it is possible to overcome a cruel upbringing. I would suggest you read them and I am sure there will find inspiration to begin to move forward past your painful childhood.
2006-07-04 22:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by norsktjej1964 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its possible. I think the first step is comming to terms with what happend to you, and not letting it control you. It isn't easy though.
As someone who had a rough childhood, I can tell you first hand that it isn't easy. But you just take everything one day at a time.
2006-07-04 22:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by evil_kandykid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first step to dealing with childhood (for me anyway) was realizing that I was grown and I didn't have to be that scared little girl anymore! You have to take it one step at a time and one issue at a time! best of luck hun!
2006-07-04 22:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by KMCTP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly."
2006-07-04 23:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by cgdchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not do it by your self. You need help. But it is possible
to lead a normal life.
2006-07-04 22:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋