i've been in his on-off long distance relationship for a year now and we've managed to meet only once. things are'nt as rosy as they were when we started off.. but things change right? we're gettng busier and what i don't know is if loves me or not coz he's always the one initiating the break up. his reasons for the break up are the distance and that his feelings for me have changed.but after a few weeks he tells me that he's missed me and wants me back. but he's got a huge ego problem as well, so that stops him from calling me first. why would he do all this if he doesn't love me? we're still long distance so its definitely not the physical aspect right? i'm confused..
2006-07-04 21:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i think he does.. why would he even bother calling me then? and he's even telling me about how he's going to try to find a job and move to where i'm staying... or am i just believing what i want to believe?
2006-07-04 22:07:48 · update #1
Well, by my reckoning, it could be several things.
You say he has an ego problem, it could be that by being with someone, even if it's long distance, he's validating himself.
I've been in several long distance relationships in my younger days, and I'm afraid to say that the biggest reason that I called it quits was because I thought I could get something more real, as in, in person real.
I realize it's not exactly the rosiest picture I'm painting, but, you I have to answer my best.
Finally, there's also how he keeps saying that his feelings have changed and that then he wants you back.
Maybe you need to tell him to make up his mind? Does he want you or does he not? Because, really, if he's just toying with you, whether he means to or not, he's just occupyping your time while Mr. Right awaits elsewhere, you dig?
2006-07-04 22:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by thegreatdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love is making sacrifices to keep the relationship alive. yes there are difficult moments but if you truly love the person you will make time to visit them, send cards, letters and at least a phone call each day or every other day. Long distance is always a challenge but you have to ask yourself if it worth it and where do you see the relationship going? Don't see yourself short.
2006-07-05 05:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find that people change and grow - and it sounds like you are both young - so he may be losing interest in you.
It is extremely difficult for people of any age to keep a romantic, long distant relationship going. You both don't know each other as well as you think - you get to know each other best by being together as often as possible - in person - not just online.
You would do best for you both if you simply remained friends and tried to find someone who is in your area as opposed to someone who is distant.
Good Luck!
2006-07-05 05:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but distance aint that much right u cant be sure if u met the 1 between every 5000 person
if he is oing this u dun have to stay like this u should stay away he is playing sorry but its like he is meeting someone so he leaves then they stop so he go back so no u dun have to be his toy if he wants u then he will stay and never leaves...
sorry wish u luck!
2006-07-05 04:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't feel the same as you do. It would be best to get over him now while he is telling you to break up with him.
2006-07-05 04:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear ur story.. he doesnt love u.. if he really loves you he will do everything for u juz to make u happy. its like he is juz playing ur heart.. dump him!
2006-07-05 05:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by chic_girL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he dosent feel the same
2006-07-05 05:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by girly wirly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋