Okay, I tried and the girl of my dreams would rather not have a relationship. This was about half a year ago and it still bugs me. 6 monthes later , I here she goes out with this other guy. Yes, he is better looking then me (way better, 6 pack and everything) but he is a total jackass and I know it.
Even though I am not the most attractive person, at least I would have treated her right. What are your thoughts on this?
2006-07-04 21:33:34 · 12 answers · asked by jmanjman47 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds like a shallow person. You might be heading that way too. Love is not about looks you know.
2006-07-04 21:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept and move on. Reassess your definition of "dream girl". Is it realistic? Include non-physical traits that would match yours. Then go hunting again. Beside, it doesn't mean that if she's your dream girl, she's the right one for you. However, if in the off chance that Mr. Six-Pack gets dumped or something (or the other way around), be ready on the wings (keep communication with her open, friendly and all)! But do try and get good abs too. It's healthy anyway.
2006-07-04 21:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Big Daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi keep being good to her & eventually she will see th@ you are the best thing th@ has ever happened to her. Just keep on being there for her & whatever you do don't diss the other guy cause it will only push her to him. She will have to see for herself that, well the truth & by the looks of things it won't take too long. You know th@ saying good things comes to those who wait, well wait.
As long as you planted a seed in her heard that you like & no matter you are there, now just let time take it's cause.
2006-07-04 21:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know the other guy isnt treating her right? Just move on.. Think about the other girl who really deserves you.. She already got what she wanted, its your turn now. Rejection is painful but it happens everyday to alot of people, doesnt mean you're less of a guy, it's just her choice. You're better off without her.
2006-07-04 21:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say that about yourself cause everyone in this world that God created has his or her beauty in various ways. maybe you two were not meant for one another, please dont take this the bad way, but for you to move on with life, you will have to face the truth and reality. dont bother about her being with the wrong guy, she will learn her lesson herself cause if you mingle in their relationship, and eventually they break up, they might blame you for their unhappiness. dont feel rejected cause if you were born, then there is someone out there for u somehow. you might nt find her today, but one day she'll come knocking on your door. life is full of surprises, believe it or not. i cant predict the future but what i can tell you is this. the jerks will forever remain jerks and get whats good but end up with the bad, and the kind hearted like you will suffer in the begining and eventually end up in happiness...dont believe what i've just said the way you should believe in God, but have some faith brother and soon you'll smile again.
hang in there and keep it strong
cheeerrrssss
2006-07-04 21:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, totally went thru it, but I have to say I definetely was better looking, anyway, you have to forget her, whenever she pops up just think things like what a jerk, i hate her
2006-07-04 21:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Fr3shPr1nce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of shallow people out theree that either have ther eyes on looks only ,money ,fame .stature or a combination of all.Sad thing bud its our reality
2006-07-04 21:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful.even though you say this girl was your dream does not mean you would be happy once you got her.You must forget about her and find someone who wants to be with you to.Good Luck!!
2006-07-04 21:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're out of her life. Accept it and move on. Her choices today are not your concern. Don't become obsessed with her. No good will come of it for either one of you. .
2006-07-04 21:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's nice to her and no one else.
If not, she's just stupid. Or a teenage girl. Both good answers.
2006-07-04 21:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋