ok so heres the deal I live in los angeles and a while back I met this woman that lives in romania she was in los angeles on vacation after we met we spent the entire timeshe was there together everything was great and then she left go go back home and we kept in touch calling and writing and now she wants me to go to romania to see her which is great I've always wanted to go to europe and see italy and france etc which I would do while there but the problem is she can't go with me she has to stay in romania for school so I will be alone and I will only be with her for about a month but see now I have this problem of I also met this girl that lives not to far from me and hour or so drive depending on traffic and she's great, wonderful, and not to mention gorgeous I feel the same about her as I do the woman in romania. I can afford the trip but should I go the los angeles girl wont be here waiting for me when I get back any one have any advice? I also have this problem of I'm an actor
2006-07-04 21:25:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm an actor and doing farley well in a small guy kind of way I mean I make more than enough to pay the bills and then some and I'm worrired if I go I might miss my big break or something but yet then I am worried what if the one in romania is the one I would rather have a good life with the woman I'm supposed to be with than have a great career what good is a loveless marriage but yet then what if the los angeles woman is the one I'm so confused
2006-07-04 21:27:20 · update #1
You will never know unless you try. you will never know if the Romanian female is the one unless you take the oppurtnity. And also you need to decide is it worth possibly missing your big break to spend some time in europe? If it was me, I would probably go, see what happens. But distance relationships are hard.
2006-07-04 21:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Josh H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the same about the one at home then why go 1000 miles to meet the Romanian woman? I think you like the Romanian woman more though, I mean you're so confused even though it's very rational and obvious that if you feel the same about the American woman then you would just stay with her at home and move forward with your career. Could it be the adventurous wild side of the trip and getting someone from a different culture? You have to imagine yourself with each one of them and imagine your life with each one of them and see which suits you best.
2006-07-05 04:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are not in love with any one of them. you like both but are confused about how to spend time with both of them. close your eyes. who do you see? if you see any one girl then go with that girl. dump the other. being an actor or factors like physical distance is never a barrier in love. your lover might live on the moon and you still will have great connection than with someone who lives nearby but doesnot click with you.
2006-07-05 04:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My feeling is the los angeles woman is the one.
2006-07-05 04:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋