Me and my bf walk around shopping centres and malls, especially during summer, and he always looks at girls bums and boobs and even rates them! I'm worried he doesn't like me anymore, and that he is a pervert. What do u think?
2006-07-04 21:12:43 · 18 answers · asked by cutie pie- u ready 4 me? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like your boyfriend is not serious about you. he doesn't care about your feelings. his 'rating game' is hurting you and he cant see that. a relationship demands commitment and understanding. he doesnt seem to understand your feelings and seems like not commited to you fully.he is not that into you. tell him to shape up or ship out.which means, he should grow up or get lost.
2006-07-04 21:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by atahsina 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't say he's a pervert, since it's natural for guys to be all eyes when a pretty girl's around.
However, he sounds like an inconsiderate pig, if he can't control his "natural urges" when you're with him.
I'd drop his a$$ for a guy with more self control if I was in your situation.
2006-07-05 04:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by luckyducky121966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not a pervert. He does not love you any less. He just appreciates beauty - in any form.
Me and My wife, when we go out I do that some times and she too joins on the fun.
2006-07-05 04:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by ksrinimurthy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it to get a rise out of you, don't let it. When he is rating, rate with him.. "wow, that's a..." cut in "bout a seven.." or rate guys to see if you can make it backfire... Or ask him what he thinks you rate.. If he says less than an 11 kick him in the butt and call him a jerk. Than forgive him later and make up. But, no he's not a perv... Yes he likes you...
2006-07-05 04:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by technical_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair that he does it in front of you, if I catch my boyfriend having a sneaky look he gets a dig. I think most guys have a bit of pervert in them. You should tell him it bothers you and then maybe he'll stop. Good Luck!
2006-07-05 04:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he is an immature pervert who has not grown up, I personally would talk to him about it and try to resolve why he dose it, if it is on purpose or automatic?
2006-07-05 04:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by J-LO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't he rates u r bumps and boobs? don't you have enough good boobes? tell him to rate your boobs. second thing you can do is start rating body and look of other man in front of him. then look his reaction. if at all he oppose then tell him what is wrong if he can rate boobs of girls then why you can not rate guys?
2006-07-05 04:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm yea!!thats messed up what he's doing!!but if you want to get back at him,next time when your walking around the mall rate a guy!!and see how your man reacts!!!
2006-07-05 04:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is not a pervert because he just joke with you.
2006-07-05 06:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dave R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if u have love marriage then it may b possible that he is teasing you, so dont create anykind of misunderstanding in your mind, and if u get chance you ask him that he is doing intentionally or just his nature
generally men are looking at girls and womens boobs and their figures .
2006-07-05 04:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by chill_chatter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a pervert, just stupid that he does that when hes with you, every guy checks out other girls, just usually not with their girlfriend, kick him the **** out
2006-07-05 04:15:30 · answer #11 · answered by mtugodfath3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋