Was that right?
2006-07-04 21:10:39 · 30 answers · asked by Angie*&*%# 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was at my b-friends house and his parents weren't there ,but they knew we were
2006-07-04 21:12:21 · update #1
He is 17 amd i love him
2006-07-04 21:20:01 · update #2
good work girl....I'm proud of you...
sorry to say but we are guys....and that age...mostly we are so horny and looking for sex....we don't understand emotions or what is love....only thing we know is through love we can get booty...
look around you ....most of the girls who lost their virginity...cuz their b/f told them that if they love him...the girl will have sex....
but after few months...the guy gets tired and dumps using this excuse, "i think we are not right for each other"
and boom...he is after another booty while the girl is trying her best to get him and crying
so the decision is yours
2006-07-04 21:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by wolf 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In my opinion, as a 21 year old male, yeah, you did the right thing.
I'm not going to get sanctimonious on you and say that you should wait until you're 18, or until the feeling is right, or until you're married.
Because, frankly, I would have been having as much sex as possible at 15, if it wasn't for the whole "awkward" life stage.
But the fact is that if, for whatever reason, whether it be a hunch, a gut feeling, or you're just not in the mood, you don't want to have sex, then, well...
Trust yourself over all others.
They say No means No for a reason, you know?
2006-07-05 04:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by thegreatdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you chose not to. 15 is way too young for most girls. If you do choose to someday have sex, make sure you have talked it through with the person and trusted confidants, and get protection. He is probably pressuring you for sex. Boys are like that. It's ok that you said no. He can masturbate if he needs to, but it's not love to expect you to have sex with him and you aren't sure about it. You'll never be sorry you waited, but having sex when you really aren't ready will be something you regret.
2006-07-05 04:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by doryanne949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is. You showed great maturity by saying no when you could have said yes. At 15 you have no clue the immense emotional burden that sex puts on you, and you may know the risks, but you certainly do not comprehend them. If you did, you wouldn't have sex. Continue saying no and focus on your school.
2006-07-05 04:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old he was.
Yes..it was absolutely right. If he cares about you, he'll wait. Good rule of thumb....until you're in a position to fully support a "mistake", don't put yourself in a position to make one. There's plenty of time a lots of fun to be had in the future years, if you don't get yourself trapped in the role of teen mother.
2006-07-05 04:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to have a baby? Do still want your life now or no life with a needy child to raise. You still have time to live. If you get pregnant at that age, your life as you now it will turn upside down. Sex CAN wait.
2006-07-05 04:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by snowwwplowerrr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im proud of you girl!That was the rigth thing to do.When you are ready mentally and fiscally you will someday, and remember save youself for the right person the guy you wanna spend your life with. If he likes you he will respect that fact that you didnt wanna have sex!
2006-07-05 04:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jacque 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on you! It makes you unlike most of the other people who stupidly choose to loose their vaginity because they think its cool. Wait to your ready, wait till you know you definately found the right person. Never let anyone pressure you. Be proud of yourself that you said no :)
2006-07-05 04:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are smart not to cave in to pressure, and know your own mind. Be strong. I'm not saying to wait till you're married or something, but you know the time is not right for you, and you got the balls to say it. Good choice.
2006-07-05 04:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kudos to you girl. You are showing more maturity than many your age. You never engage in sexual activities until you are ready to accept responsibility for all the baggage that goes with it, not to mention the potential consequences.
2006-07-05 04:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋