I am a bi-sexual female (with a boyfriend) and I am attracted to a lesbian. I see her all the time because she works at a store by my house. Would I be wrong to approach her? And If I'm not wrong, how do I approach her?
2006-07-04 20:35:20 · 20 answers · asked by i_love_ludacris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first you might want to see about your boyfriend. He may be into you being into women or he may feel let down or dumped.
Till he gives you an answer, you should not pursue the lesbo.
Laters
2006-07-04 20:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Celebrity 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u have a bf. approaching this lesbian while having a bf is the same as approaching another guy. its cheating. if u and ur bf break up, just casually approach her and ask her if she'd like 2 get a drink w. u, go 2 a movie/the beach/for coffee with u... same as a guy. be sure 2 casually mention ur bisexual in conversation
2006-07-05 03:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is talk to your bf first, not us. If he's like most of us he will be all for it. But you need to discuss it with him first, he deserves that much. Does he know that you're bi? Has he ever shared you with another woman before? These are all things that you need to consider if you care for him. If you don't then the answer is easy. JUST DO IT!!!!!!
2006-07-05 04:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by rsqur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First how old are you?
Second ask her to go out for a cup of coffee or a drink.
Third, slide in the question, about lesbians, a truth or dare type question, and thats where you'll get your answer.
Like, how do you you feel about me, and you about her.
Thats safe!
2006-07-05 03:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Leather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got a BF and the woman you are talking about is a Lesbian then she must have one GF so where is your space. First of all make your space.
2006-07-05 03:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by buttar506 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fyou have a boyfriend, you are definitely wrong. Try remaining faithful to that relationship.
2006-07-05 04:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Hadley Hodgkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's wrong...sometimes i wonder...ppl think it's ok if they like the same sex to cheat on their current partner of a different sex..don't talk to her...atleast break up with ur boyfriend..how could it be right... if u don't love ur boyfriend and the relationship isn't going anywhere..don't waist his time and urz cheating...break up if it's no good..then go talk to her
2006-07-05 03:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be wrong if your boyfriend is against it if you stay with him. if hes ok with it i wouldnt see any problem or if you arent with him. as for how to approach her...not sure.
2006-07-05 03:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by dmori23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you want to go out and have some fun some night.
2006-07-05 03:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - as you are currently in a relationship. talk to your boyfriend. it should be a discussion about whether you have an "open" relationship.
2006-07-05 03:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by Misc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋