i loved more fiercely and freely when i was younger. and after being hurt many times, it is sooo difficult for me to get romantic feelings for anyone i date. it's like i have a wall and even though i'd like to break it down, i just can't. instead of love, i get a sick/disgusted feeling in my stomach and if they make a move i find it revolting sometimes-and i know it's me and not the other person.
how do you fall in love again with a new heart?
2006-07-04 20:25:05 · 6 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every relationship is different. You learn what to take in the next one,leave the baggage behind,and stop repeating the same mistakes..You also gotta pray..You can't judge a new person by what your past ones did..Take what you learn from an old relationship,but don't judge that person by what the other did to you.You don't give them a fighting chance or yourself.. Don't ever tell a person your past issues either. That's like giving them amunnition to hurt or pick your buttons. Take it slow.. Let them open up and then you do the same,but not so fast...You'll know if you start feeling that love.. You'll just realize it slowly,and in some cases out of the blue...
2006-07-04 20:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by blueboyswoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to let go of all the old junk. I mean really let it go. The only way to do that is to realize that every one is not the same. People who hurt you in the past are not going to be the same as new people. You can't blame each date for somethign a past date did. If it seems liek you keep getting hurt then you need to take a honest look at the type of people you pick to date and why you pick that type. Work on your self esteem. Remember that you are truly worth love and being loved and cared about. You deserve the best. I wish you luck in overcoming this issue and hope that you can find true happiness. Life is short so enjoy.
2006-07-05 03:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Riddle Me This 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think your setting your self up for a fall. stop trying to find love and let love just happen. youll know when it hits you because the other person will know too. jove just happens when you least except it. It's not what you minght think and it's just not another four letter word like (**** that **** ) its got more than you can even imagin. I hope that I got at least some of what im trying to get to you across. I wish you the best and you will have the best.bye.
Brian G
2006-07-05 03:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Brian G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foremost, you need to keep in mind that all of them are not the same. It takes a long time to learn to trust again. Make sure you talk this problem over with the other person and just take it slow & easy. Maybe you need a little counceling to help you through. Keep trying it's worth it!
2006-07-05 03:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by rb_32368 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all forget every thing belong to past and take it easy.Now start from beginning assume that nothing happened in past.It is the life.Enjoy it.
2006-07-05 04:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by mohd s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet more people who have DIFFERENT interest then you have.
Read love stories. It works for me. I had similiar problems.
Just meet me.
2006-07-06 19:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Leather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋