i have a girl who i love with all my heart but she cant see that .....what do i do.
2006-07-04 19:20:53 · 38 answers · asked by casheye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get her all alone, then whip it out and make her swallow.
JUST MESSING WITH U. Have a talk with her and tell her how u feel about her, but make sure u ease in 2 this point, not just jump right up 2 this point. Be sure and be super extra nice 2 days before u have this talk with her.
Believe it or not, dud, Lady's actually like this approach, because they actually expect this, and even thou they expect this conversation they get really butterflied, but tend 2 like this butterflied feeling, Besides ur the man, u need 2 take the initiative and always take the lead on every thing. Oh, and always ask 4 her opinion. They like that u care about what she thinks about things. Luk dud.
2006-07-04 19:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Hornylias 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. Try being near her and ignoring her. If she speaks directly to you or tries to include you in a conversation that wasn't directed at you, then you know that she knows you're alive. Ask her out for lunch or a drink. Talk to her but don't profess your love. That will scare her off for sure. Get to know each other on a one to one basis. You may find that your feelings weren't what you imagined... or that she loves you with all of her heart.
2006-07-04 19:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by deedavisisland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the strongest power in the universe. A person cannot help but respond to love.
If she's not responding, you're not showing true love. Read 1 Corinthians chapter 13 in the Bible. It will tell you what love is. Then you can go from there.
2006-07-04 19:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. All you can do is be the kind of person any girl would love. You have to give love to get it and if she doesn't want it you are wasting your time with her. Don't be needy that's always a turnoff. Be strong, smart, kind, considerate. These traits never go out of style and other girls will always find you appealing if this one doesn't.
2006-07-04 19:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by matchcom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you give more details of the situation? it would be easier to help knowing more details of the situation.
chances are if you "love" her or feel so profoundly she definitely feels some sort of connection, however there is something holding her back. maybe she thinks she can do better or she doesn't know the way you feel.
if you want to win her over, pretend you don't like her anymore, and just be yourself. be funny. become friends with her friends. figure out a way to get her to see you often, but don't talk to her unless she initiates conversation.
2006-07-04 19:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone fall in love with you. It is impossible. If it is meant to be then it will, otherwise you may have to search for someone to return the love you give.
2006-07-04 19:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant make no one love u cuz love is a big word let that person fall & love with believe me give it time someone will fall & love with u
2006-07-04 19:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by latara j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont man its just something it grows with the girl and well u can be just straight just freaking charming and make her laugh and b ur self and that should do it man but u cant really make some one love u but by being ur self its a done deal " there is not that much originality now days so yeah u should just do that"
b original
2006-07-04 19:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m a girl who is also going through similar problem but in my case the boy who loves me is continuously forcing m to say yes to his proposal but i don't feel anything for him except that he is my frd . but now i m feeling irritated so i have started avoiding him so my advice to u is that plz don't force her n just give her some time to think abt ur love . all the best n hopefully u will get ur love .
2006-07-04 19:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by richa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone love you.....dont scare her away if shes not sure about her feelings about you, and deff. dont tell her you love her right up front, show her you love her instead........do things for her that no one else would, remember things she likes, do little favors, LISTEN to her when she talks, be her best friend, in return she may love you, but if your feelings are true the wait or putting yourself on the line shouldnt bother you
2006-07-04 19:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by ~amber~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋