im 24 but married and im so in love with that men who is 38 years of age now.
2006-07-04 19:18:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lt is normal to love a 38 year old man, but isn't normal to love any person when you are married
2006-07-04 19:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible. You've just proven that fact by telling us that you are in love with a 38 year old man. Nothing wrong with being 24 and being in love with a 38 year old man, but the fact that you are married (and not to this 38 year old man) does bring up some concern.
2006-07-04 19:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Garth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you are contemplating an affair, are you not? An affair is running away from a present problem. The trouble is that you won't solve anything, because all the problems you have now you take with you when you jump the fence. Eventually you'll discover that you've dug yourself a deeper hole. The guilt you would feel would be great, not to mention the hurt you would cause to your family. The trust between your self and your husband would also be destroyed.
Intimacy means a deep pleasure in opening your heart up to one another and telling the truth, when you feel the need to lie to the one you love and who loves you in return, your caught in a double bind, in which your bound to lose.
You would be far better off building on your present relationship with your husband than jeopardizing your marriage
Don't believe for a minute that your little indiscretion won't hurt anybody, because you would be wrong, very wrong!!!.
2006-07-04 19:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question is kind of vague.Are you saying that you are married and 24,but you're in love with a 38 year old man who is not your husband?Well,of course it's possible.And don't forget that age is just a number.
2006-07-04 19:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats age got to do with love or even with lust or infatuation? This isn't high school or college. Its real life. This guy is one of the luckiest guys around if he's 38 and a 24 year old woman is looking upon him with admiring eyes.
2006-07-04 19:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by bombhaus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 38, you are 24. Both of you are in love. Where is the problem lady?
2006-07-04 19:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh brother! Are you not committed to your married relationship? Get away from the 38 year old and be with your husband!
2006-07-04 19:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love knows no age. But please...if you plan on taking action with the 38 year old have enough respect and decency to tell your husband first....not after. Yes...the truth hurts sometimes but honesty is always best.
2006-07-04 19:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by silent.peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure anything is possible it's possible your husband can fall in love with a 38 year old woman!
2006-07-04 19:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it relies upon on the girl's courting with the guy. Is he a kin chum, a instructor, a superstar? - If that is a kin chum, outline the love - as kin or "in love"? - If that is a instructor, this is totally well in my eyes so long because the girl would not attempt to act on it. If the girl tried to seduce the instructor.... i'd have a topic with that - If that is a superstar, i imagine this is fantastic To be consumer-pleasant with you, love at 14 is mostly purely infatuation or "domestic dog love", and the above are in straight forward words very well if that is a weigh down and not in any respect something is occurring between both. And if it isn't one of the above courting ties, it would not be okay to me. If he says he loves you, i'd not be fantastic with that. It sort of feels like he's a paedophile subsequently..... And keep in recommendations, in case you do have sex with him, he will be jailed for statutory rape.
2016-11-30 07:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋