hey can you plz help me out here? i can never tell if a guy likes me or when/if he's flirting with me. is there any 100% sure way to tell before just asking him and makeing a fool of myself like normal? there have been times when i think for sure that a guy either likes me or is flirting w/ me (even my friends said they were) but it turns out that they weren't and didn't look at me like that - just as friends. so plz help me out!?
2006-07-04 19:16:47 · 5 answers · asked by xSublimeSorrowx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the short answer is no. but hopefully these few thoughts will help:) Id have to say that first of all flirting is a great thing to do. after all is is how we humans start relationships. so in other words flirt with a guy if you like him then if he flirts back there is no question about it. also guys and girls flirt differently which in some cases make it difficult for the other to pick up on it. for instance a lot of gals when they like a guy will tilt their head and maybe play with her hair a little. this goes unnoticed by (id bet) 8 out of 10 guys. on the other hand a guy is generally more direct in his flirting. bottom line is if you thought a guy flirted with you then there is a 99% chance he did. when you are asking opinions of friend and so on you have to understand that sometimes there could be ulterior motives in their answers. i would suggest that you start doing you man hunting by yourself instead of with the girls. sure if you are out with the girls and you see a guy you like or think a guy is flirting with you keep it light chat with the guy a bit find out where we works or hangs then happen by there sometime and when the opportunity presents itself turn up the heat a little. this is way better because when you are in a group situation both he and you are both worring about friends and looking like idiots in front of them etc... one more thing.... flirting may take a while to pay off .... my girlfriend and i met three years ago and for several reason we were not able to get together. but we did flirt with each other a lot. then three years later we met again this time we were able to get together and it honestly took about thirty seconds this time. and by the way she is an amazing flirt and to be honest if she wouldnt have asked me out we would have never gotten together because i thought she was way out of my league. isnt that silly..... after all that flirting i still didnt get it..... i guess that is a man for ya.....i guess the moral of the story is if you see something you want go and get it! good luck ....
2006-07-04 20:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by generaldisarray69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really wish I could tell you. But the fact is, even us guys don't always know 100%. I would like to tell you that there is a 100% way to know for sure when a guy like you. But there isn't. Just like there is no 100% sure way for us guys to know when a girl likes us. The only way to find out if someone likes you is to put yourself out there and flat out ask.
Sorry... Believe me... I wish there was another way.
2006-07-04 19:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will know is to have lots of conversation with him.That does not include watching TV together. Communication is the route to stabilizing and improving any ralationship. If you are unable to sustain a conversation with him he is not for you. Silence is deadly.
2006-07-04 19:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by syrious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can flirt with them and if you get the right response youll kno to keep flirtin or watnot blah blah? or if they drunk you kno they tryin to spit game even if they rnt,
2006-07-04 19:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to tell
2006-07-04 19:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋