I luv a gal. but i am afraid to propose her?wat if she says no.i don't want to brake the current relationship.

Answer 1

be a man and propose to her. if you don't ask, you'll never find out. as they say, no pain, no gain. good luck and cheers!

Answer 2

Here's the thing: Go out there and do it. If she says no, give it a few more months or when you are both uber madly in love and try again. Here's the trick though: Propose at a place where she'll least expect it (but not in a bathroom or that kind of "least expected"), and WHEN she least expects it (e.g. at a place you usually go to); nice way to catch her off guard. Be creative!

If you stumble or something, that's pretty much understandable since it is a big choice for the both of you. However, unless she's been cheating or whatever, there's literally no way for a woman to break up with you over a proposal. Remember: A proposal is just that, a proposal (which in the dictionary, it means to just put the idea in her head), not a demand (like "Marry me now darn-it!").

By the way, I'd advise you to NOT discuss it with her friends, but I'm sorry, women can't keep secrets. I told my ex g/f something that I only reveal to trustworthy people, and then a couple of her friends made a comment about it at a party a week later. Hence the reason that she is my ex now (well, among other things but I told her off right then and there), plus a few other incidents with other people that I catched wind of spreading in less than a month.

Answer 3

What if she says, "Yes!, Yes I'll marry you!" Don't let fear stop you from doing what you feel is right in your heart. If you love this gal, then do it! Propose to her. You may always regret it if you don't do it. You don't want her to be the one who may have gotten away. If she says no, there may be a number of reasons why she would say no. 1) Is she scared? Does she have a marriage-phobia in general? 2) Are you sure she loves you as much as you love her? 3) If she says no, why would you want to be with her after knowing she doesn't have any intentions on marrying you (if that be the case)? But don't allow all of the "what ifs" to stop you from proposing. That's just the fear talking! Again I say to you, go for it! I wish you all the best!!

Answer 4

hi friend ...i know what ur problem is .......u want to propose her while u still want the present situation to continue in worst case ( once u propose her the situation will drastically change ...) ....well i suggest u to do some homework before u propose ( if u hav just begun the realtion ship wait and give time ....) ...and instead of saying i direct "I love u " ( making ur and his condition difficult in case of no .....) ...start giving hints ...( asking what sort of guy she wants and while she tell the properties ....just casully ask her that u fit the properties ....or a simple palyful what abt me look )....
every relation needs time ( even if she dont loves u .....) ...ur appraoch will win her over ( i am quite sure wid it ...and when u feel she gives u a green signal go for the big show ......)....best of luck dear

Answer 5

It doesn't have to end if she says no, she might not be the marrying type which means eventually you will probably leave her in that case go ahead and propose. It's obvious you love her how sure are you that she loves you the same? Only one way to find out pop the question!

Answer 6

Tough one, very tough. Do you know her friends at all? Maybe see what their opinions are. Or bring up something in the future, such as buying a house (stay away from the baby topic.) See how she reacts.