I have a question about men behavior?

Question

I have been spending time with this man since b4 Fathers Day. I like him and every day we text message back and forth all day. I have spent a couple days with him and of course nights. Last time I saw him he kissed me good bye and said he would talk to me later. I have not seen nor heard from him since Saturday. I cant seem to get a hold of him. He didnt seem like the type to just ditch me like this. I dont know if he was in an accident or is just ignoring me. We made plans together ( like getting our kids together for a day) but now he will not answer my text messages or return my phone calls. What do I do??

Answer 1

Sorry but it seems that he had his fun and has moved on. Even if he is busy, there is always time for a quick message. While it is possible there was an accident, but a quick call to his job, would resolve this issue really quick. Probably time to move on, and hope the next one is more considerate.

Answer 2

Nothing. Stop calling him. He knows exactly what he is doing. He is avoiding you and probably spending time with another woman (wife or other girlfriend) and he will eventually call you with some excuse that you will choose to believe. But for right now, stop calling him. It seems out of his character because he seemed like such a nice guy, but right now you are getting the warning signals. Nothing can be going on that is to big for him to at least call you and tell you what's going on other than he doesnt want to be bothered with you right now.
Sorry if that was a little too harsh, but it's the truth.

Answer 3

its a holliday weekend and he has a family,figure it out there copurnicus,maybe hes oh i dont know not home,i can tell your needy just from these few sentences,be your own person or to him you'll just be another burdon and responsibillity,if hes the type of person who does this purposely you want to stay away from him anyway
if you made plans and he blew you off, he needs to answer to that .both having kids means ex wives and husbands,this is a complicated relationship you'll need to be understanding and esecially flexable. if its gonna work both sides have to be accountable to schedules,your time is limited,you both need time for yourselves as well,he may have to decide how much time hes willing and able to commit to this relationship,most guys with this much responsibillity arent really motivated,lazy if you will if he really cares,if hes really into you,he'll do what it takes keep you happy if he is'nt he won't

Answer 4

You are obviously questioning this relationship. I say you should just relax. If he calls- great. If not then it is time to move on. But move slowly before you bring the kids into the picture.

Answer 5

U knows where to find him why cant u go there and make sure what happen. If he really ignore u just like that live him alone he is not serious

Answer 6

Try to get his address and try to find his friends to know about him or wait till he reply because he might be in any problem or if you don't have that much confidence that he will return back forget about him

Answer 7

u wait give it some time and if he feels the same about u as u do 4 him trust me he will return but until then relax and enjoy yourself u are your best friend

Answer 8

either he is bi-sexual or he enjoyed with u, feels too bored to spend time with u, cheating someone and now doesn't want to get involved, fear of comittment. The list goes on, whatever it is I feel you should move on and not to waste to time on such guys!!

Answer 9

if u dont talk to him by tommorow i would be worried unless he has a good reason i.e. Someone died

men are kinda a mystery for me

good luck

Answer 10

If he is ignoring you it's because you're annoying him.

Later can mean in a couple of days too. Doesn't necessarily mean tonight or tomorrow.

CHILL.