My b/f is very upset I have guy friends I correspond with. the thing is, most of my friends are boys and this is how ive always been. I dont have many girl friends. Should I give up my guy friends for my boyfriend?
2006-07-04 18:14:02 · 7 answers · asked by california gurlie poo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok from a guys point of view, he is scared that they will make a move on you. he probably believes that guys are never just friends with girls and that there is always some other motive.
2006-07-04 18:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up friends for a boyfriend. If he truly loves and trusts you, he'll let you keep them. He shouldn't feel threatened by these guys because he's the one going out with you right now. Trust me, it's not worth it to lose all your friends over one guy. Friendship is more important than an overprotective boyfriend.
2006-07-04 18:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing. My ex bf was very controlling that way and for awhile i did give up my guy friends (which were all i had...i don't like girl friends lol) but after a few weeks of having no life i decided that he was just being an *** hole so i dumped him.....dont let him control you! this is the first sign! good luck!
2006-07-04 18:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a joke. Most every girl has mostly friends who are guys. Hardly any girl has lots of girls for friends. Girls hate girls. Its common knowledge.
Now for your question. Tell him to get over himself. You and he both know those other guys in your orbit are always gonna be ready to lay you if the opportunity arises. Its facts of life. Just tell him that most girls have mostly guy friends. You are one of them. How many of your BF's friends are female? Figure that one out.
2006-07-04 19:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Han Figworthy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't understand now then he never will. I think it's really stupid to think that just because you have some friends that youwill b havin sex wit all of them. personally I have many girl friends and they are just that, friends I have never had sex with any of them and i don't intend to. some of them I ahve been friends with from high school. I just seem to get along with them better than my male friends. For some reason I just communicate better with them. Your bf should understand this, you shouldn't have to change who you are to please him
2006-07-04 18:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by beachbum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don' t you encourage them to all be friends instead of them secretly kind of unintentionally pitting them against eachother. you must have talked to your guy friends about the situation, which doesn't put your b/f in positive light when your friends know he wants you to get rid of them and vice versa. maybe your b/f will trust you more if he sees what kind of friends they are for himself and the dynamics of your friendship with them.
2006-07-04 18:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because friends are forever and boyfriends come whenever.
2006-07-04 18:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋