Sex
2006-07-04 17:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by shilpa16985 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not with that little bit of information. Perhaps you just don't really want him to be sexual with you. That means he is not the right one. The right one is the only man you want to make love to everyday of your life (whether you do that or not is irrelevant, it is if he is the one you feel that way towards).
2006-07-04 18:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mark W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "not able"? If it is a conscious decision, then you have to exam your values and feelings. Remember there is nothing wrong with not having sex. Of course, there is nothing wrong, in my opinion, with having sex either. If you are unsure, I would suggest waiting until you are sure. If you are afraid, you have to determine what is that you fear. Pregnancy? Disease? Loss of self image or self esteem? Disappointing yourself or others? Loosing your mate? etc. Only you can answer these questions. So, if that is your problem do some soul searching, and maybe find an impartial person from who you can get advise.
If your problem is physical, either too painful or too little room to accommodate, then the problem could be either your physical make up or an anxiety type of problem. If you can accommodate a large finger or a tampon you should have enough room for sex. If not consult your gynecologist, who will also be able to tell if you have a problem with your hymen. If you have enough room, maybe you have an anxiety problem that causes your muscles to contract to such an extent that there is little or no room. (You can find information on that issue by looking for vagina tightness.) If that is the problem, then you have to decide what is the cause of your anxiety, and resolve that issue. When you are able to relax, then you will be able to have sex. Good luck finding the right answer for you.
2006-07-05 01:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by rehabob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your not ready...if your not then you should stop and dont go any further jus because your dating and he has a penis and you a vagina doesnt mean you need to use that right away...jus take your time until u feel the times rite for u to have sex..dont ever think you have to because your bf wants u to or because everyone else is doin it cuz if u dont wanna do it then u shouldnt have to!
2006-07-05 01:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He don't turn you on......He don't know how to get you going.....or you just wish it was over? You just need someone who can take his time with you and romance you right. You also might not be ready for sex.
2006-07-05 01:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be ur not giving me him the right directions to let him know that u r veyr much intrested and location and timing is very important, and am also looking for gal please if u know please kidly help me out am 21 contact me
2006-07-05 01:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by raj21blore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just dun understand y guy cant wait until gers to get prepare.. have they think of our thought
2006-07-05 01:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by applez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse not able with not willing.
2006-07-05 02:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by homerunhitter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u feel it's wrong or ur not ready and it's not meant to be
2006-07-05 01:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by mony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are smart and will wait till you marry
2006-07-05 01:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sory..
i cant..
act, if u wanna do something.
just do it..never ask..
2006-07-05 01:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by kay_lyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋