ok, i think me and my best friend might actually getting together. (i really hope) we are now cuddling i am able to kiss her on the cheek and i'm able to scratch/rub her back (for hours).
i asked her if she likes it when i scratch her back and she said yes, when i kissed her cheek she leaned into it. and when i give her hug she held my head to her sholder.
i think everything is working out but i don't know yet.
i really want to kiss her on the lips but i fear it might be to soon, but i also feel it might be the final spark that can make my dreams to come true. i feel like the feelings are there and the time could be right but i just fear it being to soon.
so do you think i should kiss her and if so, what would be the best way on doing this? (without it being to sudden and pushy)
i am going to wait till the time is right but i just want to know for when the right time comes.
please answer seriously, thank you.
if you can please answer the any open questions i still have up, thank u
2006-07-04 17:50:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-=- to: steve l-=-
my name is Thswarm666x because of inside jokes and clan names in games between all my friends including the girl i love. please don't use usernames apon judgement. if you didn't have anything to help me out why did you bother answering.
2006-07-04 18:15:51 · update #1
i guess he deleated his answer.
2006-07-05 19:02:04 · update #2
its sounds so cute... honestly you have to go for it. dat spontaneous kiss.. unexpected.. unplanned.. makes its more memoriable than any hug or back rub you may give her. trust me.. she is waiting on you to make that move. a puck on the cheek, back rub, a little tease here and there.. Sweetie pie.. thats an open invitation!! SO.. don't be shy. Go for it.. Ya being seeing fireworks.. who knows what will happen next? am i right? good luck with everything.. do a post up?
2006-07-04 18:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by isLand Princess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel!!
This is exactly how it started with me and my husband!
We were best friends for 2years before we started dating. I had never considered myself to be in love with him, I never thought of him that way, because he had a girlfriend when I first met him.
When he broke up with his girlfriend things suddenly started to change between us. We started flirting and then cuddling and holding hands.
This went on for about 3 weeks. It was very scary and very exciting at the same time! I was worried that if things went wrong, I would lose the best friend I ever had.
I was really scared of our first kiss because I knew, that it would change things forever. My husband was even more scared to make a move because he wasn't sure if I wanted to be more than just friends.
In the end, I made the first move. I haven't regretted it...:)
I can't tell you how and when you should kiss her, but you definitely should!!!!
My husband and I have been happily married for six years now and he's still my best friend!!
2006-07-06 01:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by tabs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you already know the answer to this question....however if you need to read it from someone else then yes when it comes time and you feel its the right time to kiss her on the cheek then make the move then and kiss her on the mouth. I think you will be happy with the response you get....Good luck
2006-07-05 00:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you want her
Look at her, you know you do
Possible she wants you to
There is one way to ask her
It don't take a word
Not a single word
Go on and kiss the girl
When the time is right you will know ... a soft sweet kiss on the lips might just take her breath away!!
2006-07-05 02:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U already know the time is right. Your heart is telling u now.Dont swallow her face just a nice soft gentle kiss.alot of times friends make the best spouses.I kissed my husband the first day.
2006-07-05 00:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by kpoa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stare into her eyes, and lean a little bit forward. Then, if it feels right, kiss her.If not, just kiss her cheek. I don't think it's too soon, but everyone has their own calender of readiness.
Good luck!
2006-07-05 00:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mira Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a gentle, short, and dry kiss on the lips would be a good next move. Don't wait too long; she seems to be giving you the signals.
2006-07-05 00:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by ksjazzguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think she wants you to kiss her.
dont be quick, when thees a monent then go for it. You can look her in her eyes and slowly move forward and pause a lil just to see if she refuses and then go for it but not all tongu, make it very gentle
trust me i know
2006-07-05 00:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with asking her. But if it where me ,I would defineatly want you to give me an unexpected kiss. Don't be afraid take the chance now before someone else comes into her life.
2006-07-05 00:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Sra. R.C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that same thing happened o me last summer me and my best friend started like eachother and we would hold hands (we werent going out) and look eachother in the eyes and kiss eachother on the lips my friends told me to kiss her because she wanted me to make out wit her but i wasnt sure if it was true and i didnt then she told me to 4get evrything that happened were still best friends now but i still wish that i made out wit her because myabe sumthing would have happened between us so i say u should kiss her before its to late but it also depends on the girl..
2006-07-05 00:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Leo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋